How to Turn an Ordinary Girlfriend Into a Lover

Appearance care. Always remember to take care of your appearance so that it always looks its best. If you haven’t paid much attention to how you look when you’re around her before, this could be a sign that she quickly learns that you’re trying to push your relationship further. . However, it is a good thing to keep your appearance in top condition anyway as it will help boost your confidence. You shouldn’t use too much gel in your hair or wear a formal outfit when you go out with her, but taking care of your appearance will make her notice you more and help her realize that you are giving her a different kind of affection.

• Try to dress decently when you’re around her, be sure to shower, shave, and do whatever it takes to make you look better. But don’t wear a tuxedo or use too much aftershave lotion. You should choose clothes that are appropriate for the situation, and smelling like you’ve just soaked in a bath full of perfume will only bring you minus points, not plus points. The less you use, the better. If you look pretty good, you’ll feel better. Making an effort to take care of yourself is also a way for you to say “You look! I’ve been trying to make myself look better, I’ve really started to take care of myself. I’m only doing it because I care about you.”

More mischievous. While the relationship you’re in can be hilarious, humor will help you win her heart. Be more playful and playful in her presence. Tell her about really funny things to make her aware that you are the guy who loves to find humor and fun in life. Give her a sexy glance, then laugh out loud when she starts to get serious about it (don’t end up as a gazing weirdo).

• Find ways to compare your relationships with the funny people you know in life or in the entertainment industry. It would even be better if they were romantically involved with each other. For example, some famous couples on the comedy scene include: Hari Won and Tran Thanh, Thanh Thuy and Duc Thinh, Cat Phuong and Thai Hoa.
• Sometimes, tickling is also a game that can help you, but you should be careful. If you try to “gross” her, you will really run out of chances of being her lover. However, not all girls like tickling. Watch her reaction and don’t go overboard if she seems annoyed. Be prepared to be tickled by her.
• Teasing her is also a way to be playful and flirt with her. Remember not to end up making her feel offended by your mistake.

Increase physical contact. Maybe you both find each other quite attractive. However, this is the time when you need to increase the contact in a way that is considered flirting but not off-limits. For example, try to touch her at least 3 times every time you see her. Touch her for no more than two or three seconds (long enough to imprint on her subconscious) and should only touch her in the right places, such as her hands, shoulders, and neck.

• Share food. The act of sharing food with each other when going out to dinner or when having a snack is quite intimate and can increase the chances of both of you getting close.
• Hugging is also pretty good. Hugging is an act of showing friendship but also increasing closeness that can help you break the friendship limit with her.

Be a helpful person. Help her, such as helping her whenever you can. You can help her with anything, from housework and fixing things to homework and interview preparation. Helping is a sign of caring, and this is quite an attractive trait. She will see that you care about her and want the best for her. However, you shouldn’t do everything for her, or else she might think you’re a pushover. She should also do nice things for you.

• Being helpful and helpful to her doesn’t mean you can be bossy and snobby. If she can do something on her own, publicly praise her instead of telling her you can do better. Nothing can frustrate a potential romantic partner more than arrogance or belittling others.

Listen attentively to what she has to say. Don’t just sit back and nod and pretend like you’re listening. Girls are usually happy when you listen and take the time to really get to know them. In addition, listening will also benefit your future relationship and also help strengthen your current friendship. You should show her that you can be her lover by being polite.

• When she’s talking to you, look her in the eye and put away your phone or remove other distractions. Let her feel that you really care about her every word.
• Avoid interrupting her. Wait until she finishes talking about what she wants to say.

Memorize every detail about her. Things that you should remember include her birthday, her siblings, her phone number, the food and colors she likes, her hobbies, ambitions, and things she has said. let you know. Write down important details if you are forgetful; it will help you to recall the memory before proceeding with the important conversation. This will make her aware that you really care about her.

Invite her to the party. If you both enjoy dancing and spending time partying, ask her to let you be her date partner. At first, this may help her feel more secure with someone close to her, and the party atmosphere and natural excitement that the event brings can help guide things along. happens the way you want. Spending time together at a party can take your relationship to the next level.

Narrow the gap. Use body language to get closer to her when you get a strong signal that she cares. Lean your shoulders toward her, lean toward her gently, often face her and touch her. Again, hugging is a pretty cool act! Take note of her reaction as you try to get closer to her. If she’s open to intimacy and seems like she’s comfortable with it, you’re on the right track.

• Remember not to fall on her or on top of her, grab her too tightly or hug her too hard.
• Gently touch your foot to hers. You should only do this when you’re sure she understands your intentions and begins to respond to them. This is quite a bold action, quite stimulating, and quite funny if you choose the right time.

Let her look forward to your presence more. Don’t spend too much time with her. Instead, spend a lot of time with her, and then stop contacting her for a while, and then move on, remembering to flirt with her when you meet. When you stop communicating, she’ll get a chance to think about you, hopefully. This will also make you a guy that other people can hardly have. If she knows that you’re always there, she’ll be less likely to want to see you.

• Spend more time with her when she’s happy than when she’s sad. This will help her associate happiness with your presence. If you succeed in making her a lover, that’s when you need to be there to support her when she needs it.

Remember to flirt with her. Gradually increase the level of flirting if you get a positive response from her side. Let things happen naturally. Tease her a little, play around a bit, touch her lightly, and treat her differently from other girls. Let her know that you’re not just flirting because you like flirting, but because you have a special affection for her.

Observe her interest in you. As you get closer to her, you will probably realize that she has some feelings for you too, watch for the following signs to see if she likes you or not.

• She paints her nails a different color one day, and changes the color the day she hangs out with you. She is trying to get your attention through little things.
• The hem is short, and the collar is down. Basically, she’s seen a different side of you, and she wants you… to see… something different… in her too. She wants you to know that she can be attractive, too.
• She often blinks and looks at you.
• She moves more gently.
• Her voice became soft and slow; and
• She starts flirting with you a bit.

Become a little bolder. Take her to the mall or go to the movies. Or you can hang out together at night. When you meet her (make sure you’re alone to avoid “eyes and ears”), say something like “Wow. You look so pretty”. And smile.

Choose the right time and place. If you want to go on a date with her, choose a place where you’ll both have some alone time, and at a time when she won’t have to think about other matters at all. While you don’t want to wait too long to ask her questions, you should find a way for both of you to have some privacy, and make sure she’s in a good mood. For example, don’t ask her opinion about dating right before she has an important math test, or she’ll be completely distracted and stressed listening to you.

• Once you’ve found the right time to tell her when she’s alone, you should try to be as casual as possible. If her friends are around, you’ll be hard-pressed to have a great conversation with her.

Tell her why you like her. Don’t talk too much about this. Just give her a few compliments and let her know you enjoy spending time with her. Let her know why she’s special to you and that you notice everything that makes her such a great person. Don’t embarrass her too much or raise the issue too quickly; Take a few minutes to make her feel that she is special.

• You can observe her reaction during this process – if she looks annoyed or as if she’s looking for the nearest exit then you shouldn’t proceed. But if she’s excited and looks like she wants to hear more about this, you’re in luck.

Invite her out. Don’t spend too much time getting to the point. You just need to tell her that you’re happy to be her friend, but you want to take your feelings to the next level. Let her know that you’ve thought this through carefully, and that, although you appreciate your friendship, you’re willing to take the risk to go further. She’ll be glad that you’re in love with her and that you’ve taken the time to think about it to make sure you want to build a relationship with her.

• You just need to say “Do you want to be my lover?”. Or, “Do you want to date me?”. You don’t want to spend hours just getting to the heart of the matter. When you ask her questions, look her in the eye and show her your sincerity.
• Or, if you’re pretty sure she’s flirting with you, too, or that she likes you, lean in closer to her, and tell her, “I need to tell you this. I think you’re beautiful, sweet and honest. I don’t want to ruin the friendship we have. I just want to know if you have the same feelings for me.” Be prepared to receive her answer. Hopefully she will smile and say yes.
• You should remember that if you are too bold, you risk ruining your friendship. Be gentle. Timing is important, and you won’t want to rush it.