How to Text a Girl

These days, texting is the usual way to develop friendships, and possibly even love. If you want a girl to like you, texting is one of the easiest ways. Now, calm down, pick up the phone and get going.

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Ask for phone number. You can only text her when you know her number. While it’s not easy to get a girl’s phone number, you should try to be casual about it. Just say: “Hey, I don’t think I have a friend number yet. Save each other?” is almost the task will be completed.

When asking for a phone number, you should avoid:
- Get her number from another friend. If she hasn’t given you her number directly, she doesn’t expect you to text her. Even she will feel scared when you have a phone number without going through her.
- Ask for a number when chatting online or over the internet. When she asks for a direct phone number, it’s hard for her to refuse. Unless she’s really in control of the situation and isn’t afraid to show that she doesn’t like the other person, then 9 out of 10 you’ll get the number.
- Pretend nothing important. The more you show that this is not so important, the higher the probability of success. If you show genuine interest, she might hesitate.

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Introduce yourself in the first text first if she doesn’t have your number yet. If she gave you her number and is waiting for you to text her, start it like this:

“Hi, I’m Nam yesterday, remember?”
“Hello Thao, it’s Nam. I just watched a very good video so I want to share it with you. Have you seen this video?”
Or you can add a hint of lighthearted humor on purpose: “I’m the guy who turned red when he asked for your number yesterday.”

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Text regularly. Text her often to see how she responds to you. Don’t terrorize people’s phones in the first place with hundreds of text messages. You should only text a few messages a day, then stop for a day or two to show that you’re not really crazy about her (however, for some girls this can be frustrating).

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Watch for signs that you’re on the right track. Everyone has body language, and you probably know it. But did you know that body language can also be expressed through texting? Look for the following signs to see if you’re on the right track:

Quick Reply. Does she respond quickly every time you text? If she is the unpredictable type, she may not answer right away. So don’t expect too much from this sign.
Smileys and other emoticons. Does she often laugh “haha” or “hihi”? That’s a good sign. Smileys and other emoticons are definitely a good sign too.
Green light with you. You will know as soon as you receive the message. If she replies, “Wow, I’ll have to watch it now” (when you share an interesting video) or says “I’m so happy every time I talk to you” then you’re on the right track. Stay fit!

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Watch for signs that she’s not interested. Besides the good signals that you should catch, you also need to know the negative ones. Keep these things in mind when you start texting:

She doesn’t reply to some of your texts. She simply ignored them. If the unanswered content seems tactless or unsophisticated, you need to keep it in mind and never repeat it. Give her a little more space.
She answered very succinctly. If you’ve texted her a lot of well thought out things and only got a “yeah that’s cool” response, then she doesn’t want to talk or isn’t interested in what you have to say. .
She never actively texted. If you’re always the one to text first and she never initiates, it’s probably not a good situation.

Be comfortable

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Think about what you want to message. You should start with general things and gradually personalize the story.

For example, at first you might talk about upcoming parties and events.
Then you can text to tell us what you’re doing and what you’re going to do.
Finally, you can text her just to say that you’re thinking about her and what you like/love about her. (This should only be used when you are already in love or the relationship is at a level where you believe she won’t feel uncomfortable.)

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Try to put humor in the message. Funny things make texting easier. If you’re a humorous person, take advantage of that. If not, try to develop jokes that only the two of you understand, playfully tease her or just comment on funny situations you’ve both been in.

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You need to make sure you read all of her messages. In addition to answering questions, you need to respond in a way that shows her that you’ve read and understood what she’s often texting. Daughter loves that.

Don’t reply right away every time she texts. You should wait a few minutes before answering. Gradually increase the time. Sometimes you can wait a while before replying, then return to normal, sometimes wait a little longer.

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You shouldn’t flirt with her too much. Don’t rush to “attack” her every day. Once you start flirting, take it easy. Sometimes less is better, and learn to text more widely about:

Her daily life. “How are you now?” “How is your day going?” and “Did you have any fun on your weekend?” are common messages.
Any problems she has. Let her talk about her problems with you. Do not delve into her private life. However, if she starts talking about it, you should try to offer advice.
Things happen in your life. It’s good that you pay a lot of attention to her. But sometimes (just sometimes) she might want to know about what’s going on around you, too. Share what you do, who you meet and where you go. These little things will contribute significantly to the success of the relationship. Try to keep things under your control.

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You have to develop a relationship from texting. Once you start getting to know a girl, you shouldn’t just stop at texting. You even need to take it a step further by starting to hang out with her, talk on the phone, and go on dates. If she also has feelings for you, this is what she should expect.

Advice

Be sweet and polite. You should show that you care about her.
Use smileys when texting with girls. If you also receive the same emoticons, then there is a high chance that the other person is interested in talking to you.
Don’t text the same text as the one she didn’t reply to before.
Don’t take too long to answer her. She will think she is being ignored by you.
Be yourself, don’t try to change for someone else. You should remember that girls like sincere guys.
Try not to let her know that you’re waiting for a text. You will become desperate in her eyes.
Try giving her some hints that you like her, but don’t say it outright. She might feel scared.
Remember, always being yourself is always the best!

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