How to Split a Couple

Even if you think there’s nothing wrong with breaking the relationship of the person you like to make you and that person happier, the world may not think so. In addition, mature and intelligent lovers can easily discern your motives, especially when you show any signs of jealousy towards either of you, claiming to be female friends. close friend, or the person’s ex-girlfriend.

• If this is your goal, you must be sure that it is absolutely right. This is a moral issue and it violates the Ninth Commandment. Are you willing to sacrifice your dignity? If the relationship falls apart because of an external factor (you), rather than a matter of the nature of the relationship, the couple may still harbor feelings for each other and their love will grow stronger. stronger over time.

Become the confidant of the person you like. If you’re going to separate the guy or girl of your dreams from the other, then, like Iago in the play Othello (but much less cunning), you have to slowly slip between the two, but sure. To do that, you have to win the trust of the person you like and get him (or her) to open up to you. Be understanding, agree, sympathize, show that person that you are a good listener. At first, your partner may not have told you about their relationship at first, but it will come.

• A warning to you: Being the confidant of someone you love is not falling into a friendship with that person. Remember not to act intimately like a friend, or he (she) will never be able to consider you a lover. If either of them finds out then you will surely fail. Ninety-nine percent are unsuccessful.

Let her confide in the ripples in her relationship. Every relationship has its ripples, and the chances of a couple breaking through their honeymoon period and dating for a few years are pretty low. The worst thing is that you openly criticize your partner’s relationship, or in general you make your guy (her) feel that he has a bad relationship. This will make people angry, defensive, and even more determined to heal. No one wants to admit defeat, especially in a relationship, so you have to wait for the person to naturally admit that their relationship has problems.

• You can start by letting the person talk about their relationship. Ask seemingly innocent questions. For example, if you know that her band was playing at a local venue last night and her boyfriend didn’t show up, innocently ask her if she enjoyed the show.
• Or just ask how her evening was. If she seems annoyed, just say, “How was your weekend?” and wait for her to reveal the rest.
• Ask, “How does that make you feel?” You open the conversation with general questions that can encourage the person to keep talking – and you start to see the cracks in their relationship.
• If unfortunately you are trying to break up a close couple, it is very difficult to get the person to reveal anything unhappy in the relationship. But once you become his or her confidant, you may find that their relationship is not very good either.

Play the game “stabbed and poked with rice”. Once he (she) has started talking about the rifts in the relationship and all the problems with their partner, the worst way is to either completely agree or say, “You deserve to be treated. behave much better.” This will make the person suspect that you have shady motives. Instead, act reserved and incomprehensibly, force the person to talk more and explain why he or she is really unhappy – and how flawed their partner is.

• If your partner has to talk more about their frustrations and you can get him or her to keep talking, they’ll be even more concerned about these issues.
• Make sure that every time there is a disagreement, that person tells you. Inquiring about his (her) feelings will make him or her ponder over those conflicts even more.
• In this situation, not criticizing her relationship will be better for your plan. If you are really with her, then no one can say that you ruined her previous relationship. If you openly criticize one of the two, especially when the plan fails, it shows that you have deliberately divided the two of them.