How to Seduce a Girlfriend

Do you feel like you are failing in love? Has she recently rejected your intimate gestures? Do you want to enter a new phase in your relationship, but aren’t sure how to start? Regardless of the situation, you can employ a few tactics to increase your chances of success. By setting the stage and a bit of classic flirting, you can seduce her and improve your relationship.

Table of Contents

Get her attention

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Make an impression. You probably don’t want your girlfriend to think that today is just another day. Show her that you’re trying to break with the routine. This will help you create a romantic atmosphere. A good starting point to make an impression on her is to appear out of the ordinary. Get in front of her erotically, and she’ll be captivated by you even before you realize it. ^{[1] X Research Source}

Dress up beautifully. Forget sweatpants or jeans and a t-shirt: you need to show her that tonight is going to be different. You need to wear a really cool outfit. Make sure your clothes match the color (try wearing a dark purple top with black pants or a navy top and brown pants). Ask someone to help groom your hair. If it’s a special date, maybe you should go to the salon to style your hair. In her eyes, you will have an elegant look like you just stepped out of a fashion magazine. ^{[2] X Research Source}
Emits a seductive fragrance. Girls’ sense of smell is very sensitive. A pleasant scent is not a guarantee of success, but an unpleasant smell will almost certainly be to your detriment. You can use a light body spray or a scented deodorant to keep your body smelling fresh.

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Do something different. Do something out of the ordinary when you’re with her. As well as the effect of a change in clothing, your out-of-the-ordinary gestures will tell her that tonight is going to be different. This will probably get her attention and create a romantic scene.

If you normally talk and interact with her cautiously and seriously, today you should break that scenario. Instead of always acting calm and collected, show her a softer, deeper side that’s lurking inside of you.
As another example, let’s say you are usually shy around your girlfriend. So tonight, take the initiative when you’re with her. She will be very pleased.

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Take advantage of touch. Touch plays an important role in affection for women (and for men too). If you’re eager to jump right into the act of love, your girlfriend may brush it off out of sheer shock. Use cuddling to set the scene and evoke romantic feelings in her. ^{[3] X Research Sources}

Touching the nape of her neck, stroking her shoulders, playing with her hair, caressing her collarbone; All of those gestures could change her mind in an instant.

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Make sure to choose the right time. You must understand that sexual inspiration in women is very different from that in men. Women are often not interested in love when they are stressed, sad, tired, or feeling uncomfortable. If she’s in those moods, it’s probably not the right time to inspire her, and all your efforts will only frustrate her more. ^{[4] X Research Sources}

Timing is also important if this is her “first time” or her first time having sex with you. If your girlfriend isn’t ready to take this step in the relationship, don’t force her. Talk to her, tell her what you want and see her attitude. Just make sure she understands that you still have feelings for her, even if she’s not ready.

Inspire her

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Do something lovely for her. A woman is often uncomfortable being around someone she feels doesn’t care about her. A good way to show the seriousness of your feelings is to act nice to her. Sure, you can start with flowers and chocolate as usual, but if there’s an opportunity to do something more impactful in her life, take it.

Suppose she is having trouble getting to school or work because her car breaks down. Call a close friend who knows how to fix cars and talk to them to fix her car. This will give her a lot of relief.
Of course, just because you do something nice for her doesn’t mean she has to be physically close to you. You shouldn’t use this method to force her into a more intimate stage. Instead, this gesture should just show her that you are a good, dedicated, sincere lover who cares about her well-being.

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There are romantic gestures. Romantic actions are very cute in the eyes of girls, and also help you show affection. ^{[5] X Source of Research} This is important because it shows that you are more than just a friend to her. Girls often worry that you won’t find them sexy or attractive if you don’t act romantic from time to time, and this will make them less interested in intimacy. Be a little romantic, and she will soften in no time.

For example, you can turn the tide and do something for her. Maybe she knitted you a shawl or something like that. Now it’s your turn. One suggestion for you: Give her a gift of origami. It will be very impressive but also not very difficult if you are patient. You can check out articles on origami for ideas and how to do it.

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Praise her properly. Another way to create an emotional atmosphere is to compliment her. However, not everyone is good at giving compliments. Sometimes we say things that we think are nice and that we mean well, but if not said properly, the other person can feel offended. You should learn how to compliment her and try to compliment her tactfully. ^{[6] X Research Source}

For example, perhaps you should avoid compliments like “You look beautiful today” because it implies that she isn’t normally pretty. Another compliment that should be avoided is “You look so slim in this dress” because it sounds like she doesn’t look very slim on a daily basis.
It’s best to say it’s up to the woman to say what’s appropriate, but in general statements like the following can be considered good, “I want to talk to you forever” or “I feel like a myself when I’m with you.”

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Inspire inspiration. Is anyone seduced when surrounded by dirty clothes and dishes? Feelings of love are also harder to come by after events that are not at all romantic, such as a stressful day at school or work. Help your girlfriend get into a more romantic mood and she’ll be ready to be tempted.

You can make her feel good by creating a poetic atmosphere. Clean the house, light scented candles, decorate the room with flowers and candle holders. It didn’t take much effort and really impressed her.

Heating the atmosphere

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Literally heating. Some studies show that women often find it difficult to orgasm when it’s too cold. If you want to increase your chances of success, try turning on the heater in your room so it’s a little warmer than usual.

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Relaxing massage for her. Start seducing her with a soothing massage. If you don’t know how, don’t worry: we’re with you. Take it slow and don’t stop after a few minutes. You need to make her feel as comfortable and relaxed as if she were lying in a smooth, buttery bath.

Use lavender oil or baby oil for a massage. That way you won’t irritate her skin, and also help your hands glide smoothly over her skin with caressing and seductive movements.
Pro tip: prepare the oil by heating it in a bowl of warm water for a few minutes before applying it to your skin.

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Go beyond the ordinary kiss. You probably already know how to kiss. If you don’t know, you need to go back to the basics before seducing her. However, even if you are adept at this, you should still try to “upgrade” the game.

Experiment with kisses on her stomach and sides. Those are very sensitive areas.
You can play the game of kissing her freckled skin, counting her freckles, and going for bolder areas.
Another suitable area is in the corners of her lips, which are very sensitive and will drive her crazy. She will want to kiss you on the lips, but indulge her right away. Instead, kiss all over the place until she begs you to kiss her on the lips.

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Speak mundane and tempting words. Guys often think that they should never say “bad things” to women, or fear that it’s disrespectful. However, there are times, in certain places, and for some women, when this is truly lustful. When the two of you are in the erotic scene, tell her exactly what you want to do with her. ^{[7] X Research Source} Tell her what you want to make her feel with your deep, hoarse voice. Whisper into her ear. She won’t be able to resist you because of the joy that swells inside of her when she knows how much you want her right now.

Say something like, “You’re hot. I just wanted to tease you until you had to beg me…”

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Stimulates sensitive areas of her body. Once you’ve created the setting for what you want, you need to start stimulating her body to get her ready for such activity. If you jump into sex too quickly, her inspiration can quickly dwindle, too. Stroking her erotic areas for a while before actually making love.

Stroking her on the back of her neck, breasts, inside thighs, ears, and buttocks can all get her excited. Pay attention to each body part and movement: kissing, licking, sucking, massaging, stroking… even hot/cold stimuli like ice cubes can be used. Creativity is endless.
If all goes well, you can, of course, stimulate the more sensitive areas. If she’s ready and willing, you can stroke her clitoris with your fingers.

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Add a little extravagance. If sex between the two of you used to be pretty bland and casual, a little new flavor can get her excited again. When sex is just boring and monotonous habits, few people are interested anymore; this is natural. When you know how to recall something new and passionate, she will return to your arms.

For example, try blindfolding her and playing striptease, kissing her body lower, lower and back up again. A strange mix of feelings will be wonderful, and she will be ready for anything.

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Slow action. Women usually warm up more slowly than men, so you’ll have to take it slow in the foreplay. The slower and more erotic you are, the more willing she will be to undress. A slow kiss, a caress along the neck, and soon she would ask for more.

Your hand shouldn’t accidentally go down the zipper of your pants or inside your girlfriend’s shirt. Allow at least 20 minutes for other movements before trying to undress her.
Your movements will also become great if you start slowly.

Advice

If it’s a bad time, like after an argument, don’t expect the charms to work.
Remember to keep your body smelling fresh.

Warning

If she’s angry or uninterested, this may not work.

Steps

Get her attention

Inspire her

Heating the atmosphere

Advice

Warning

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