How to Make Him Kiss You

You’ve started a romance with that special guy, but you still don’t know how to get your first kiss with him? Follow these steps to suggest him.

Table of Contents

Wake up the mood

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Clean your teeth before meeting him. Either way, there’s no harm in keeping your teeth clean. There’s nothing worse than having to kiss someone with bad breath, or someone who still has food between their teeth. ^{[1] X Research Source}

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Stay alone with your boyfriend. Maybe this guy wants to kiss you but is afraid to do so in front of many people. Circumstances that might prompt him to kiss you are to be alone with you. If the two of you are in the same group or in the middle of a party, make an excuse to go somewhere alone. Approach him, touch his arm, and say you want to talk privately. If not, you can pull his hand and tell him to come with you — he’s yours after all!

Stay close to him in a private moment. If you don’t get close to or hold something between you, he’ll probably assume you don’t want to be kissed. ^{[2] X Research Source}

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Do something romantic. You don’t have to arrange a candlelit dinner to create a moment of romance. Anything related to physical touch will suffice. If you can be a little sexy, even better.

Invite him over to your house to watch a movie or show. Get him to sit in the front seat — you can make an excuse to go make popcorn so he has to sit first. When you come back, sit next to him, leaving him no way out. Maybe he’ll put his arm around you–a big step closer to the kiss.
Have a picnic in a deserted place. While on a picnic, sit next to him, hold a strawberry or grape, and offer to feed him. Move your gaze from his eyes to his lips and back away. When feeding him, let your fingertips gently touch his lips.

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Get him close. If this guy is shy, he’s probably looking for a more subtle way to approach your face, so give him a reason to do it. Come up with a clever reason for the two of you to get closer. When the distance is shorter, say “want to be kissed”. This move of yours can create a moment he’s been waiting for. ^{[3] X Research Sources}

Tell him that you want to see his eye color better, or that something seems to be in your eye and you want him to check it out. You can also pretend there’s something stuck on his face– lean in close while ‘wiping’ then look up into his eyes.

Hints through gestures

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Break boundaries in terms of physical contact if the two of you were between you before. Touch his elbow, hold his hand, brush his hair out of his face, or gently place your hand on his knee. Breaking these boundaries will help the two of you overcome your shyness with touch. ^{[4] X Research Sources}

Once you’ve crossed the line of shyness, keep moving forward. When you smile, put your hand on his arm. As you walk, hold his hand. Maybe he’ll understand what you mean and start taking the initiative to hold your hand as well.

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Lean on him. This will let him know that you enjoy physical contact, and that you’re really comfortable around him. This is your clearest signal–and leaning against each other will often lead to a kiss. ^{[5] X Research Sources}

When leaning on him, rest your head on his shoulder. Interlock your fingers together and lean back comfortably. All those clues will say “I love being this close to you, kiss me!”

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Lip hint. Drawing your boyfriend’s attention to his lips will definitely make him want to kiss you. Do everything you can to get him to notice your lips. A classic approach is to gently bite your lip while looking at him. ^{[6] X Research Source}

Apply lip balm (And let him witness the action). Remember that lip gloss can be very sticky and make the kiss feel uncomfortable. Use a lip balm or lip balm if you want to avoid that sticky feeling.
Apply ice cubes to your lips if it’s hot. Not only will this look very inviting, but it will also make your lips look as fresh as if you were applying lip balm.
Licking your lips as if you were eating something succulent. If you’re eating watermelon, ice cream, or something very watery, leave some of the liquid on your lips and slowly lick it. Be careful, don’t look clumsy when you do this–you’re trying to create a sexy girl image, not ‘the girl in need of a tissue’.

Verbal hints

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Flirting with words. Just because a boyfriend isn’t ready doesn’t mean you should stop flirting. Flirting is the act of keeping a relationship light and healthy–moreover, it shows your passionate love for him. Be playful and tease him (but not too much). You can even tease him about not daring to kiss you (and that’s a pretty straightforward way of saying ‘I want to kiss you!’)

Send him flirty texts when you’re not together. Funny and sentimental texts are a great way to be adorable, even when you’re not around. Just remember not to overwhelm him with texting–that’s a very offensive move.

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Make him feel confident. Guys love to feel like they’re on the cusp of their partner–make that feel for him. Even if you don’t need him to open the jar to keep the lid closed, you can still make him puff his nose by saying ‘Oh my god! Look at your muscles!’ Of course this is just another type of flirting, but it also boosts his confidence–hopefully, he’ll come up to you with confidence as a result!

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Straight up say you want him to kiss you. Honesty has both advantages and disadvantages. The upside is that you’ll get immediate results, and it’ll show him how confident you are–which is a very attractive point. The downside is that you may end up with unsatisfactory results. Maybe he still needs more time to get over his shyness, or maybe he just doesn’t like kissing as much as you think. Either way, you’ll get results–and you’ll put less pressure on him when he says what he wants.

You can make your offer both frank and seductive. When you’re hugging him goodbye, move closer so your lips brush over his ear, then whisper “Kiss me” or “I want to kiss you.” Maybe the things you say and the feel of your lips over his ear will give him the courage to commit to a kiss.

Advice

Don’t force him. No one likes being forced to kiss.
When you smile brightly and hug him, he’ll know he did the right thing and you’re happy about it, so he’ll be happier too.
In order not to make the moment after the kiss feel awkward, look him in the eye and give him a sweet smile.
Don’t look worried. You’ll make him worry too.
If the kiss doesn’t go as expected, don’t despair. Maybe it’s because he’s so nervous–don’t act like you see something wrong. If you want, you can take the initiative to kiss him.
If he comes to your house, and you have siblings there, make sure they don’t bother you, as their presence may make him stop wanting to kiss you.
If everything goes well at first, stroke his hair. This act is very cute and sexy, and it also shows that you like what he just did.
If you haven’t been kissed after the first attempt, don’t be discouraged. There are guys who are very shy when it comes to physical contact.
If he’s known for being a good kisser, don’t be shy, because you’ll learn a lot from kissing this guy, and just being there makes him happy.
If none of the above methods work, be proactive! Kiss him and see where things go. He will probably be grateful that you took the initiative to come forward.
If he doesn’t kiss you, he may be shy or feel that things are moving too fast. Stay calm.
There are guys who don’t like hasty touch, so don’t “take action” if either of you doesn’t feel comfortable.

Steps

Wake up the mood

Hints through gestures

Verbal hints

Advice

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