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This article was co-written by Allen Wagner, MFT, MA. Allen Wagner is a licensed marriage and family therapist in Los Angeles, California. He received his Master’s degree in Psychology from Pepperdine University in 2004. He specializes in working with individuals and couples on methods of improving relationships. Along with his wife, Talia Wagner, he is the author of Married Roommates.
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For you, impressing a girl may seem like a big deal, but it’s actually not as difficult as you think. You can definitely make a good first impression by taking care of your appearance, showing off your good qualities, and showing her your unique skills or ideas. Once you’ve attracted her, performing simple but meaningful actions, like smiling or looking her straight in the eye, will help the relationship progress better. If so, you should try impressing her with exciting and equally thrilling dates or letting her help you do something to increase her feelings of love for you. Always remember, love is often a bit mysterious and you absolutely can’t get every girl to fall in love with you.
Steps
Impress her
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Show her that you have a great personality. Show the girl you have a crush on before you ask her out. Simply showing her how kind, chivalrous, funny, insightful, and polite you are is enough for her to understand that you’re the perfect boyfriend. [1] X Research Source
- If you think your personality is not perfect and still has many shortcomings, focus on improving yourself. For example, if you are a pessimist, then every day aim to find three positive points around your daily life. Over time, you will begin to find it easier to feel the positive and exciting things in your daily life. Moreover, an active lifestyle also brings you many benefits such as improved self-esteem, better sleep and deeper understanding. [2] X Research Source
- Always talk to her. Many studies show that people with good character are always attracted to others. But if you don’t talk to her, how will she know what a nice guy you are? [3] X Research Sources
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Always make sure you look cool and attractive. A well-groomed look and gentle demeanor will give you confidence in front of the girl you like and that alone will be enough to steal her heart. Every day, remember to make time to eat healthy, exercise regularly, get enough sleep, and take care of yourself. When you feel satisfied with yourself, you will establish yourself confidence and love life, and these factors will always attract you. [4] X Research Sources
- Eat right and exercise regularly.
- Rest and relax every day.
- Make sure your hair is always neat.
- Wear clothes that reflect your personality.
- You can use a little perfume or deodorant.
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Constantly looking for good opportunities to prove his special abilities and talents. Some girls will find specific attractive traits in a guy while others will not. However, the only way you can tell if the girl you’re after is attracted to your special talents is to find an opportunity to show her that. [5] X Research Sources
- For example, if you’re a great guitarist, don’t be afraid to invite her to enjoy one of your rehearsals or performances with your band. Or if you excel at a sport, invite her over to cheer on your game!
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Do what you like. Some girls often fall for the guy who has a strong passion for their own hobbies and spends a lot of time doing them. If you have any special interests, never forget them. For example, if you’re an avid reader, always make sure you stick to that good habit even when you’re chasing her. This will give you more interesting topics to talk to her about while looking her straight in the eye. And on a beautiful morning, she will be really impressed when she sees you reading a book in a certain coffee shop. [6] X Research Sources
Invite her out
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Plan to approach her. You will feel nervous asking her out with you, but if you have a careful and thoughtful plan, it won’t be as scary as you think. Think about when and how to ask her out and where to go. Try carefully sketching out what you want your date to be and then spend some time visualizing a good outcome.
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Dress neatly and politely. Of course, you’ll always want to look your best when you hang out with her on the first date. Of course, you won’t leave a good impression on her if you’re wearing your dirtiest shirt and haven’t showered in a row. But you don’t have to dress up in an elegant tuxedo or even change your look before you go on a date with her. Just make sure you shower and dress well, and remember to shave and comb your hair. [7] X Research Sources
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Receive her gaze. Confidence always makes you attractive and one of the things that makes you feel confident is looking her in the eye when you ask her out. Although looking at the floor or repeating your question to her makes you feel more comfortable, it really doesn’t impress her. Instead, looking her straight in the eye and keeping your head held high is the best way to show her your trust. [8] X Research Sources
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Stand up straight and tall. The way you stand also shows how confident you are. If you’re standing with your back stooped or crossed over your chest, she’ll take it as a sign that you’re scared or nervous. Instead, stand with your back straight and let your arms rest at your sides. Keep the shoulders slightly tilted back while the chest is slightly raised. This position will give her a sense of your height and solid build, so she’ll fall more easily than if you approached her stooping. [9] X Research Source
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Let’s go directly to the main point in a short but easy to understand way. It’s not necessary to talk to her for an hour before asking her out. The truth is that if you go on long on this, you will be demoralized. Better yet, walk up to her, compliment her, and tell her you want her to spend some time hanging out with you. [10] X Research Source In case you want to ask her out over the phone, that’s also a good idea. Just make sure you don’t ask her out over Facebook or text her because she might think you’re too nervous to tell her directly. [11] X Research Source
- Try saying to her, “Hi, you look great. Look, I might be in a bit of a hurry, but I wonder if you’d like to hang out with me on a nice day? Can I have your phone number?”
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Take the opportunity if she says no. Occasionally, women will respond the same way when you ask her out, no matter how hard you try. The answer “No” is what you will likely face when you ask her out on a date. [12] X Research Sources If she declines your offer, don’t panic! Just pass up this opportunity and try not to act like you’re so disappointed.
- At this point, you can tell her, “It’s okay, that’s still great. I thought you were a funny person to talk to and share, so I plucked up the courage to ask you out. But don’t worry. Wish you a good day!”
Increase the love she has for you
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Plan a surprise date. If the girl you have a crush on remembers to nod and agree to go out with you, do your best to make sure she doesn’t refuse to date you next time. Sometimes just small gestures, like opening the door for her, helping her put on/take off her coat, and pay for dinner, are enough to make her swoon. If you want to surprise her even more, stand on her doorstep with a bouquet of roses, take her somewhere exciting, and wow her by ordering your food in the house. row. [13] X Research Source
- To impress her on the first date, you should find out what she likes through small talk and then plan your date by matching her interests. For example, if she’s a big fan of horror movies, invite her over to see the latest horror movie. Or if Chinese food is something she can’t resist, invite her to dinner at a famous Chinese restaurant. Or if she loves to play, invite her to a small concert! [14] X Research Source
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Praise her. When you get to know a girl on your first date, don’t forget to give her a special and sincere compliment from the bottom of your heart. Simply tell her something like, “You look so pretty in that dress today!” or, “Your hairstyle looks great!” No matter what compliment you choose, always make sure you compliment her directly and look her straight in the eye as you speak. [15] X Research Source
- Always compliment her when you continue dating her next time and when you both get to know each other better. Don’t just stop at complimenting her looks. Also, as you get to know her better, don’t forget to compliment her intelligence, sense of humor, and other talents. For example, you could tell her, “I’m really impressed and amazed at your talent for playing the piano.”
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On the first date, it’s better to just talk about safe and healthy topics. When you’re in the early stages of getting to know her, don’t get too deep into personal matters. Instead, only talk about things that make her feel comfortable and not hurt. For example, you could ask about what kind of music she likes, the movies she’s watched recently, or her hobbies. [16] X Research Source
- Avoid talking about sensitive personal issues that make her uncomfortable, like talking about your exes, family strife, or even religion. Instead, focus on questions that help you get to know her better, like asking about her likes and dislikes, her friends and family, or what she’s passionate about…
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The more questions you ask, the better your chances of winning her heart and getting to know her better. The important thing here is to always show a sense of humor when getting to know someone. So don’t forget to ask questions that uncover her personality. Once you know a little about what she likes and doesn’t like, you’ll have the opportunity to discuss these topics more deeply during the date. [17] X Research Source
- For example, if she confides in you about her favorite movie on a recent date, ask her what she liked about that movie, how many times has she seen it, what actors she admires are. who… Of course, she will be really impressed by your superlative memory of what she said and your sincerity towards her interests.
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Always look at her with loving eyes and be patient. Getting to know someone can take a long time or just a moment before she falls for you. But no matter what, never get discouraged or lose patience. Just make an effort to let her feel the happy times and how persistent you are in pursuing her. Look back at the times you’ve spent together or hang out together as an opportunity to try harder and prove to her that only you are worthy of her love.
Advice
- If she really doesn’t have feelings for you, don’t try to convince her that she likes you but she doesn’t realize it herself. That only makes everything worse. You cannot explain other people’s feelings or understand how they feel.
- Avoid ignoring her when you’re with your friends. Friends will always be around you, so if you ignore her when you’re chatting with friends, she’ll feel like you don’t like her at all.
- Don’t overdo it or show too much affection for the girl you’re after.
- Approach her slowly, not in a hurry.
- Never lie to her, or she will hate you.
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This article was co-written by Allen Wagner, MFT, MA. Allen Wagner is a licensed marriage and family therapist in Los Angeles, California. He received his Master’s degree in Psychology from Pepperdine University in 2004. He specializes in working with individuals and couples on methods of improving relationships. Along with his wife, Talia Wagner, he is the author of Married Roommates.
There are 10 references cited in this article that you can view at the bottom of the page.
This article has been viewed 58,824 times.
For you, impressing a girl may seem like a big deal, but it’s actually not as difficult as you think. You can definitely make a good first impression by taking care of your appearance, showing off your good qualities, and showing her your unique skills or ideas. Once you’ve attracted her, performing simple but meaningful actions, like smiling or looking her straight in the eye, will help the relationship progress better. If so, you should try impressing her with exciting and equally thrilling dates or letting her help you do something to increase her feelings of love for you. Always remember, love is often a bit mysterious and you absolutely can’t get every girl to fall in love with you.
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