How to Get a Girl to Notice You on Social Media

If you want to catch a girl’s eye, you’ll probably need a social media presence. With so many social media platforms, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed or wonder how to get her attention. Fortunately, there are many ways you can stand out from the crowd and get her attention.

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Follow her social network updated regularly.

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This is a way of implying that you notice her. If you suddenly follow her on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and YouTube, she’ll probably freak out because of your special interest. Instead, you should stay calm and choose to follow her social media updates regularly so you don’t become weird when you suddenly comment or like her content. While the above social networks are all good for flirting, Facebook and Twitter often send a lot of notifications and this can help you get noticed. ^{[1] X Research Source}

You certainly don’t want to freak her out with your interest; Therefore, you should only be slow on social networks.

Publish your profile and add more information.

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Add interesting information that might attract her attention to your profile. If your account is set to private, the info won’t show up in explore or search, and she won’t be able to see it when she sees you following. Edit your profile a bit to add some of her interests or hobbies. ^{[2] X Research Source}

For example, if she likes a certain band, you would mention that you are a fan of their music. If she loves the outdoors, you can add a few similar hobbies like climbing or sailing.

Choose an eye-catching photo.

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Highlight your good looks or experience. You’ll choose a profile picture that highlights your favorite physical feature. You can also use photos that show your interest. For example, you will post pictures of scuba diving, going on a “trip” with friends or playing an instrument. Think about what you want to see and show it on social media. ^{[3] X Research Sources}

Review your old photos and delete photos that you don’t like or seem outdated.

Interact with her new posts.

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Do not comment or like posts from more than five days ago. Nothing can make you look as if you’re “craving” like looking at her old posts. You can still see old photos to get to know her, but don’t comment on or interact with those old posts. Engage with her latest posts if you want to make a connection with her. ^{[4] X Research Sources}

Occasional comments.

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Do not comment first or comment under each of her posts. This can make you look like you’re “snooping” and waiting for her to post something new. You should only comment after seeing other people’s comments. Also, post a maximum of one comment per post, as posting multiple comments can make her unpopular with you. ^{[5] X Research Sources}

Avoid commenting on posts that have a lot of interaction, especially posts that have a lot of the same comments like “Congratulations” or “Happy Birthday”.
If you leave a comment under all of her posts, she’ll think you’re too eager or too laid-back.

Write a comment with the right tone of voice.

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Write fun, positive content and avoid arguments. You probably don’t want attention for no good reason; so don’t say she’s wrong or argue in the comment section. Instead, you should write funny or interesting comments to stand out. ^{[6] X Research Source}

For example, if she shares pictures from a certain concert, you might comment, “Wow! Do they perform songs from the latest album? The third song is really great.”

Share positive content on your profile.

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Post unique or upbeat content that she’ll enjoy watching. Sure everyone has days when they want to complain about life, but that’s not the kind of energy you should be sending her. You need to show fun, excitement to attract her. You can share updates about working out, eating at a famous restaurant, or going to see the latest blockbuster. ^{[7] X Research Sources}

Browse her profile to see what she often posts and shares similar content. For example, if she likes photography, you could share some black and white artwork. Here’s how to make connections.
Avoid negative content that shows you smoking, drinking, or doing things that might upset her.

Repost her shareable posts.

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Find shareable content like quotes, memes, or calls to action. She’ll get a notification when you share it, and you’ll be on her mind. Perhaps she will have a positive connection with you because you appreciate what she shares. She’ll text or leave a comment on your repost! ^{[8] X Research Sources}

Keep in mind that not everyone has shareable content. You shouldn’t repost her photos or update her feelings.

Post articles every day.

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Here’s how to get your account showing up on her feed. Most social networks prioritize fresh content and she will definitely see what you post. The fact that you regularly share your story will help keep you on her mind. Don’t think too much about the content of the article – you can share simple things like: ^{[9] X Research Sources}

A good meal
Update after practice
Favorite Quote
Photo of the place you want to go

Have someone else tag you if you have mutual friends.

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Take a picture with someone who knows her and have them tag you. Even though you and her are not friends in real life, she will still recognize you when your friends’ photos appear on her feed. ^{[10] X Research Source}

For example, if you’re at a concert with a group of friends, take a picture with someone you know and share on social media. Tag them and write a caption that this was a great experience.

Send her a message.

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Open up so you can ask for an appointment. If you feel like she’s paying attention and interested in you, text her commenting on what she’s posted or what you two have in common. If she replies, you’ll keep texting. You can ask for an appointment if it feels right. ^{[11] X Research Source}

For example, you would send the message “Your work makes me unable to take my eyes off. I really like how you combine photography and drawing in your design.”
If she replies to texts and you send them back and forth a few times, you could try saying, “Can I take you out for coffee?”

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