How to Get a Girl From Her Boyfriend

Chances are you’ve met a wonderful girl, and then you find out she’s a “flower with an owner”. While this is a disadvantage, it doesn’t mean you’ve run out of options. If you make the right move, you can snatch the girl away from her boyfriend.

Table of Contents

Behave confidently

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Build trust. To do this, spend time with her when you can. You need to treat her like you would any other normal girl. Listen to her problems, try to get to know her better, and make time for fun activities like going out to eat and watching movies. ^{[1] X Research Source}

Don’t rush to find a way to get her as your girlfriend, otherwise, she will see you as a troublemaker and just use her for fun.
Always independent. If you’re clingy, she’ll just see you as a friend, not a potential lover.

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Create happy memories. If she has happy feelings for you, she will think of you. Pay attention to her, hang out, and do activities you both enjoy. If she likes bowling but her boyfriend doesn’t, play it together. Avoid arguing or encouraging her private affairs, but don’t talk badly about her boyfriend either. ^{[2] X Research Source}

This means you need to learn about the weak points in her relationship and fill in the gaps left by her boyfriend. Listen attentively to her complaints.
Finding similarities is a great way to strengthen connections. If she wants to try skydiving but you want to go hunting, try connecting the two by explaining that they are both adventurous.
If she wants to spend time with you a lot, it’s a sign that she’s not satisfied with her current relationship.

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See her the way she wants. Flirting is fine at this point, but you still have to treat her like a normal person, not just an object of love. To do so, listen and support her. If she wants to be a photographer, for example, give positive comments and compliments. Remember that there is no shortage of guys out there who like her for her good looks, and they will stand in the way of her dreams, including her current boyfriend. ^{[3] X Research Sources}

Efficiently communicate

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Build communication. Let’s create the foundation first. This can take time, but a girl isn’t going to break up with her boyfriend over someone she hasn’t known for a long time. The happier the relationship between her and her lover, the more patient you have to be. Talk to her in a way that shows her that you’re confident, comfortable, and assertive. ^{[5] X Research Sources}

To do this, develop your own values. You need to keep your body clean, exercise, eat healthy, and practice speaking by standing in front of a mirror or talking to others.
Approach her but stay calm. Speak clearly and maintain eye contact.
Always be frank when bringing up a topic that concerns her. For example, if she’s reading a book, ask about it, focus on it until the conversation starts to fade, then you can change the subject. ^{[6] X Research Source}

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Discuss different topics. It’s easy to get caught up in talking about your job or your friends. This was a mistake, because doing so would be boring and everyone would talk about such things with their friends. Instead, focus on her. Memorize interesting information and stories and use it occasionally.

There is a common communication trick that people use, which is to ask profound questions about the other person that cannot be answered with just “Yes” or “No”, for example: “Work at a bank. I’m sure you will meet a lot of interesting people, tell me about a customer that you find interesting?” ^{[7] X Research Sources}

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Promote yourself. To do this, find out her ideal type of boyfriend. Ask her, “If you could fall in love with anyone, what would that person look like? How would they behave? How would you feel?” You need to find out as much as possible, then compare her boyfriend to that role model. ^{[8] X Research Sources}

For example, if she says, “I want someone to listen,” you could say, “My boyfriend seems busy, but he sure works hard.”
Never insult her boyfriend or conclude about his shortcomings so bluntly with her.

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Don’t act like her second boyfriend. The girl you like may already have hundreds of other guys complimenting her on how pretty she is. Don’t sit there praising her, and don’t just do things her boyfriend doesn’t do, like listen to her relationship problems or buy her food. Those things can turn you into a regular friend, or an endless ATM, or a “rain brother” before she gets back with her guy.

Take advantage of your personality. Always appear mysterious, attractive, and independent instead of scheming to take her boyfriend’s place.

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Flirt with her. The way to express your desire is to do without saying it. Make her want you without you having to say it outright. You need to be patient and seduce her with words. From time to time, you can lightly touch her hand, wrist, or shoulder, as long as she’s comfortable with that. Over time, you may find more opportunities to interact with her, for example by showing her how to bowling or helping her climb high on a hiking trip.

Don’t tell her your intentions. She will see you as a threat to her feelings, and this will make her feel uncomfortable, even taken advantage of.
Since you’re trying to influence her feelings, some discomfort may arise, but you should never make her feel threatened. Please stop touching her when she asks.
You should also never be demanding. Don’t make her choose between her guy and you.

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Kissing thief. After being friends for a while, you can try showing affection through actions. Consider for yourself when is the right time. The two of you must be in a private place and have enough attraction to each other through courtship, intimacy, and pleasurable experiences. Don’t try to force her if she refuses to act. ^{[9] X Research Source}

Instead of continuing to force your relationship, it might be better to just kiss her and let her think about it.
This is a risky but necessary step to cause emotional confusion if you are trying to get out of the friendzone. If this scares her away from you, you should stop pursuing her.

Advice

Be there for her in her boyfriend’s absence, but don’t just be a shoulder for her to lean on.
Act smart. Stand up for her when it’s appropriate. She will appreciate your courage.
Be careful around her boyfriend. You should speak up for her, but don’t insult or hit him.
Don’t get mad at her boyfriend. In general, he has done nothing wrong with you. Being rude to him will make you seem immature and jealous.
Be willing to invest time. Building trust and romantic feelings takes time.
Let her break up with her boyfriend naturally. Cheating is wrong, and if she does it to her boyfriend, she will probably do the same to you.
Don’t text or call too much, as it will make you look miserable.

Warning

Suggesting that she break up with her boyfriend will expose your intentions and make her feel manipulated, which will almost destroy her chances of being with her.
Girls who are quick to break up with their boyfriends, or who don’t agree to break up with their boyfriends radically will hurt you. Unless they’re in a very bad relationship, she’ll most likely cheat on you as she did with her guy.
Be prepared to be robbed of her by someone with the same skill set as you. You’ll have to earn her trust and maintain your edge.
Doing the things that are normally reserved for boyfriends or friends, like listening to romantic problems or going shopping together, will make you look like a friend.
Be careful with girls who are likely to take advantage or deceive you. You always have to take control of your own life. ^{[10] X Research Source}

Steps

Behave confidently

Efficiently communicate

Advice

Warning

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