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Whether you’re trying to approach a girl you don’t know or trying to stay cool in front of the girl you have a crush on, one thing is for sure: talking to girls can be tough at times! But if you remember that girls are just like everyone else in your life, being around them won’t be so scary. By believing in yourself and practicing some essential communication skills, you will feel light and comfortable around any girl.
Steps
Build confidence
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Be yourself. When you want to win a girl’s heart, changing your personality won’t help! Even if it works in the short term, you will still feel fake and unhappy; moreover, chances are she will eventually realize the real you. You need to know who you are. Take control of your thoughts and feelings in life. Sincerity and confidence are what attract girls and will also make you feel good about yourself. [1] X Research Source
- Don’t be too generous or too eager to try to win her over. This can come off as contrived, even crude – and definitely not how you want your portrait to be! [2] X Research Source
- You should also spend less time trying to please girls. Accept your flaws and don’t let them confuse you.
- If you love yourself and are comfortable with who you are, you’ll be more comfortable around other people. And even if things don’t go as planned, it doesn’t matter too much! Only you can make yourself happy. You love yourself, that’s the most important thing.
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Keep the body clean. Good hygiene will help you look better and feel more comfortable. Shower every morning and don’t forget to wash your hair. Use deodorant and put on clean clothes before going out. You don’t want to worry about stinking around with girls! Keep your body clean to make sure this problem never happens.
- You can spray some perfume on your neck and shoulders. If you use perfume, you should only spray a little! Surely you do not want to drown everyone around with the strong scent of perfume!
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Dress decently. If you can, go out and find some clothes that suit you. Clothing doesn’t have to be expensive, but should fit and be comfortable. In addition to making you more beautiful, the clothes you wear also give you confidence and can focus on girls without having to worry about your appearance. [3] X Research Sources
- You can observe the people around you to know the current fashion trends, but don’t forget that a beautiful outfit must reflect your unique style.
- Ask the salesperson to see what they think. Ask politely, and they’ll be happy to help you choose an appropriate outfit.
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Do things that you enjoy. You can have fun with the girls by doing activities they enjoy, but remember to take time for yourself and keep doing the things you want to do. If you like sci-fi movies and comics, then go for it. Never be ashamed of your hobby! Pursuing your interests will make you happier, more sincere, and more pleasant to be around.
- When you’re in love, you can be “attracted” by that girl, which is natural. However, once in a while, take a step back and give yourself space to focus on doing the things you enjoy, playing sports or playing games, for example.
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Relax . Your stress will also stress the girl out. If you keep trying to look around for topics to talk about or find ways to get out of an awkward situation, you won’t be able to focus on her. Take a deep breath before approaching the girl and when not talking. Focus on the present moment and remind yourself that nothing bad is going to happen, because most likely everything will be fine. [4] X Trusted Source Greater Good Magazine Go to Source
- Most people are busy with their own lives and don’t mean to embarrass or embarrass you. Don’t worry even if you think you’ve made a mistake or are clumsy; chances are that people will immediately forget what happened just now. [5] X Trusted Source Greater Good Magazine Go to Source
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Be honest with your intentions. Starting off by being friends with the girl you have a crush on is a good idea, but if you have feelings for her, don’t keep it hidden. Try to start a relationship, show interest in her. If you hide it, she won’t know your feelings and may feel cheated or disrespected when she finds out. On the contrary, do not misunderstand the girl if you just want to be friends with her. Don’t forget the saying that is true forever: Honesty is the best! [6] X Research Source
- Respect her boundaries. Don’t pressure her emotionally if she doesn’t reciprocate you. She will appreciate it and probably want to stay friends more, even if she doesn’t reciprocate your feelings.
Communicate effectively
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Maintain eye contact though. When approaching a girl and starting a conversation, make eye contact with her. This shows your confidence, and the look in your eyes when she talks also shows that you’re listening. However, don’t stare, especially when you’re not talking to her. Just look just enough to let her know that you’re interested in her and then look away.
- Don’t worry if things are difficult at first. Eye contact can be a little awkward for anyone! To practice eye contact, start with a mirror, then move on to practicing with friends and strangers.
- Making eye contact isn’t easy, but it will save you from being caught looking at her body. Plus, making eye contact is polite, bonding, and a great way to show that you care and respect her.
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Engage the girl in the conversation. Greet her as well as other people: say hello and suggest a suitable topic to talk about. Some topics that can help break the initial awkwardness are asking for advice on what to wear, talking in class together, complimenting a girl on a good grade, or offering to help her. [7] X Research Sources
- Practice regularly to increase your confidence around girls and lead to more intimate conversations. Everyone likes interesting conversations, and you’ll impress girls with your confidence and sociability.
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Listen actively. Listening and understanding the girl’s hidden meanings will help you win her sympathy. Put down the phone and try to understand everything she says. Don’t interrupt. Show interest by nodding and responding when she finishes her sentence. No one wants to talk to someone who won’t listen, so it’s important to maintain this courtesy when talking to any girl. [8] X Research Sources
- Repeat what the girl just said, such as, “You just said…” to show that you understand the main point of the person talking.
- When responding to a girl’s words, you need to be respectful and non-judgmental, no matter how you feel. Be really attentive to her thoughts and opinions before replying to show your insight.
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Show genuine interest in people. To build trust between you and a girl, you need to communicate on a more intimate level. Ask about the girl herself, her hobbies and desires. Show her that you want to get to know her better. This will make you seem more confident and help the girl feel more comfortable around you. As an added benefit of this, there’s less pressure to find a way to keep the conversation going: all you have to do is ask questions and listen! [9] X Research Source
- For example, a good question is to ask about the girl’s favorite music. If she loves music as much as you do, then you can share that hobby. Even if your taste in music isn’t the same, you can still say, “I’ve never really listened to that genre. Can you recommend some songs for me?”
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Pay attention to her feelings. When you show an interest in a girl’s life, she’ll probably confide in you about her problems. It shows that she really trusts you, so it’s important that you listen with care and respond with empathy. Never make her feel judged or mocked – you don’t want to feel that way, and you know she doesn’t. [10] X Research Source
- For example, you might say, “It’s okay, that test was hard. You did a great job.”
- Support the girl’s goals. If she wants to be a photographer, you should encourage her, no matter what you think in your heart. Say, “Great! It’s great to have such big dreams!”
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Made the girl laugh . Humor is an effective way to make you charming and charming. Engaging in fun with the girls will make things less awkward as you get to know each other, and also pave the way for conversations about more serious issues. You don’t have to be a born comedian and you shouldn’t try to act like that! Just try to spark witty conversations or repeat funny anecdotes from your past life to make her laugh and dispel her shyness. [11] X Research Source
- However, not all jokes are appropriate in all situations. For example, you should avoid telling vulgar jokes in front of new girls.
- As the two of you get to know each other more, you’ll gradually learn what she’s interested in and start talking about fun things that are just between the two of you. Be patient and see how you and her juggle each other. Soon the two of you will burst out laughing together!
Good behavior
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Respect personal space. A handshake is enough when you first meet the girl. Be comfortable and always behave properly: don’t stalk her, don’t keep your face close to hers, or touch inappropriate places like her face. When creating a relationship, pay attention to how much physical contact she can tolerate. Start with gliding over your arms and shoulders when you’re talking, and get close when you get a chance, such as when attending parties and concerts. [12] X Research Source
- If you want to create a romantic relationship, gradually increase the contact slowly and naturally. You can then try hugging and flirting with her if that’s acceptable.
- Don’t touch the girl if she doesn’t want to. Respect personal boundaries and back off if she doesn’t feel comfortable.
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Behave politely. Showing elegant gestures in front of girls. Inappropriate actions like swearing, “dropping bombs” or telling vulgar jokes will definitely keep girls away. Show respect and courtesy by keeping the door open for everyone, saying “please” and “thank you” all the time.
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Treat everyone equally. Talking to everyone – from boys to strangers – is like talking to a girl. Show respect and kindness, and listen to them. Avoid fighting – violence is not a good way to impress anyone! When girls are around, they’ll see how honest and mature you are. [13] X Research Source
- It’s not easy to argue or confront someone you don’t like, but you need to try to avoid letting your emotions explode. Breathe deeply and control your words. After all your words and deeds, you will be proud of yourself for choosing to act right, even if the girl isn’t around to impress you!
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Do not speak ill of others behind their backs. Bad-mouthing the absentee can have the same effect as a face-to-face encounter, sometimes even worse! You should avoid gossip. When you share negative information, you will seem immature in the eyes of girls and even make them wonder if you talk about them like that when they are not around. You need to be respectful at all times.
- On the other hand, don’t say negative things about girls or reveal their secrets to your friends. This information can reach their ears and then you will get a bad reputation. Show them that you are trustworthy, and they will soon see you as a loyal friend.
Advice
- Don’t panic when you misbehave. Admit mistakes, laugh, and respond with humor. Handling the situation gently will make you and the people around you more comfortable, including the girls.
- Especially gentle when around shy girls. Start a conversation and break down the touch barrier slowly. Give her some space.
- Pay attention to her body language to get an idea of how she feels and know how you should behave.
- If you want to build a relationship with her, don’t be afraid to try flirting a bit! However, you need to remember to back off if she doesn’t seem interested or uncomfortable.
- Unless there’s a commitment between you and the girl, you shouldn’t be jealous when she’s around other people.
- Remember to be friendly to her friends and family, no matter what you think of them.
- Stand up for the girl when you can, but don’t get drawn into a fight.
- Walk confidently, and don’t be afraid to look your girl in the eye.
- If she’s sad, encourage her and make her happy so she’s happy too, so you can joke or tell funny stories.
Warning
- Never force a girl to have physical contact or accept a relationship with you if she’s not ready.
- Trying too hard to hide your feelings or impress a girl can easily go unnoticed and make you unhappy.
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This article was co-written by Eddy Baller. Eddy Baller is a Marriage and Love expert based in Vancouver, British Cpumbia, Canada. Since 2011, Eddy specializes in coaching on confidence building, enhanced social skills, and relationship development. He runs a marriage and love counseling business called Conquer and Win, which is Vancouver’s only BBB-certified dating coaching business. Conquer and Win helps men around the world have the love life they deserve. His work has been featured in The Art of Manliness, LifeHack, POF and so on.
There are 12 references cited in this article that you can view at the bottom of the page.
This article has been viewed 9,728 times.
Whether you’re trying to approach a girl you don’t know or trying to stay cool in front of the girl you have a crush on, one thing is for sure: talking to girls can be tough at times! But if you remember that girls are just like everyone else in your life, being around them won’t be so scary. By believing in yourself and practicing some essential communication skills, you will feel light and comfortable around any girl.
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