How to Be Yourself

Be honest and open minded. What have you been hiding? We are all imperfect, growing up, and getting to know people. If you feel ashamed or insecure about something in yourself, and you think you have to hide it, whether the problem you’re facing is physical or mental, you have to accept it. Accept and learn to improvise your own flaws into your unique personality or simply admit your flaws.

• Try admitting your own shortcomings in an argument with someone. You’ll find that suddenly you can eliminate the reason why you insist on defending your position in an argument, usually because you’re trying to save face or refusing to admit you’re wrong. There are times when you need to say, “Oh, you see, I get angry easily when the room is messy like this. I realize that I shouldn’t pile my clothes on the floor, but I do it because I’m pretty lazy sometimes, and I’m actually trying to fix this habit. I’m very sorry. I know I can do better, and I’ll try,” being honest in an argument will help ease the tension.

Don’t compare yourself with others . If you’re always trying to be someone you’re not, you’ll never be happy. This happens when you compare yourself to others and find yourself wishing to be them somehow. This is a slide where your thoughts become more and more negative.

• You can only see the look others want to show openly, but not what is going on behind the surface in that perfect world. If you compare yourself to others, you can make their outer image strongly influence you and reduce your true inner value just because of an illusion. This is really not helpful at all, but also bad for yourself.
• Instead, value who you are, love your personality, and accept your flaws; We all have flaws, and it’s better to say them out loud than to deny them.

Don’t care how many people understand you. Some of them will love you, but some won’t. Each of their attitudes may or may not be correct. You won’t be able to be yourself when you’re always asking yourself, “Do they think I’m interesting? Does she think I’m too fat? Do they think I’m stupid? Am I good enough/skillful/attractive enough to be part of their team?” Be yourself, you should eliminate those worries, and act naturally, only allowing yourself to think about others as a filter – not let their thoughts affect you.

• If you change yourself for someone or a group of people, they may not like you, and you could fall into a vicious cycle of trying to please everyone without trying to cultivate your talents and strengths. close.

Don’t be someone who tries to please everyone . Wanting love and respect from everyone all the time is pointless that will ultimately adversely affect your self-confidence and self-fulfillment. Who cares what other people say? Eleanor Roosevelt once said that no one can make you feel inferior without your consent and the most important thing is that you should listen to your self-confidence, if lost, You need to start rebuilding that trust!

• Does this mean that anyone’s opinion in life means nothing to you? Not so. You will be hurt if you are rejected. If you’re forced into a situation where you have to spend most or all of your time with someone who doesn’t like you for their own reasons, it’s really dangerous because you could be receptive to their negative opinions. about who you are. What you can do is practice choosing the opinions of the people you value more. It’s better to be interested in the person who truly means to you and who agrees with the decisions you make for your life.

Surround yourself with positive people. Don’t trivialize what you’re going through if you’re faced with negative pressures and threats in society. It will be easier to cope if you realize this and build a protective barrier for yourself. Building a trusted circle of friends who can share your views and beliefs in life is the perfect way to reduce the influence of your haters. You can tell yourself that their opinion doesn’t matter to you, and that they shouldn’t, but it’s better if other people agree and take your side.

• Compare your crush to any bully; Suddenly you realize that their opinion about you, your family or your lifestyle, has become meaningless. We are inherently interested only in the opinions of those we respect and admire. The same is true in the opposite case; If someone doesn’t respect you, what they say about you is like a complete stranger’s cliché.

Recognize the difference between scary, sarcastic, or malicious comment and criticism that tends to be constructive. It’s a commentary that focuses on the real mistake you don’t know about, and what you can do to fix it. In the latter case, people like parents, experts, teachers, coaches, etc. can show you what you need to reflect on at your own rate of progress, and what needs to be improved to get better. . The difference is that their critique of you tends to help you improve.

• Those people really care about you, want you to be who you are, as well as how you will respect others. By learning to recognize this difference, you can live a good life, eliminate meaningless negative commentary, and accept constructive contributions for you.

Treat yourself like you would a close friend. You value your friends and they are close to you; So who is closer to you than yourself? Treat yourself in the same way, with the same consideration and respect as you would treat someone you care about. If you had to date yourself one day, what kind of person could you be funny/interesting/happy/calm/satisfied while still being yourself? Which is your real version?

• Take responsibility for yourself and for raising your own self-esteem. If others say bad things about you, don’t let it affect you. Instead, tell yourself that you are special, wonderful, and important. When you believe these good things are for you, others will see your confidence and soon assert your worth!

Develop and express personality. Regardless of whether it’s your style or your way of speaking, be proud if you’re in the habit of bucking the trend and producing positive results. This is personality, not style.

• Learn to communicate well – the better you present yourself, the easier it will be for people who like you to find you and people who don’t like you won’t hang around.

Avoid being unfair to yourself. Sometimes the comparison will make us cringe between apples and pears. We want to be top Hollywood movie producers but we are just ordinary and aspiring screenwriters. Take a look at the lifestyles of a top film producer and find yourself looking for nothing more than a lame comparison – that person has years of experience and influence behind them, while you’re just getting started. Beginners to the profession, practice writing skills, at best this skill will only prove to be special one day.

• Be realistic in your comparison, see others only as an inspiration and as a source of motivation, not because of them to reduce your self-worth.

In his own style. It’s common practice for many people to copy the entire actions of others because it seems like a good way to adapt, but should you really stand out? Making yourself stand out is hard, but you need to avoid assuming other people’s views are your own, even if you don’t usually do this; This is all about how to be yourself.

• Whoever you are, accept it . Being different is really great and that will draw people to you. Don’t let people change you!

Let’s agree that tomorrow will be better. People can make you nervous and even laugh at you when you feel like you are, but shrug your shoulders and say, “Hey, that’s me,” and leave, people will respect you eventually. respect you for this, and you will respect yourself. Most people struggle to be themselves; If you can do it, they will admire you.

• Sometimes you will hurt when you are teased. Since being yourself is hard, and easier said than done, do your best to let go of the hurt. In the end, you will become a more mature and amazing person, know who you are, and be able to survive any challenge on your future path.

Stand up for yourself. When someone bullies you, why do you let them do it? They have no right to bully you! If you run into trouble, there are still good, understanding people out there ready to help you.

Stand up for others. When you turn the bully’s face, it’s your good instincts that’s stopping them. No matter how you do it, you have the power to make them stop. Please believe in yourself.