How to Be Personal

Don’t rely on. Remember that personality people are not dependent or hopeless. Instead, you should try to solve your own problems when possible. If you don’t depend, others will want to help you or ask for your help. This is a point that helps you become attractive in the eyes of others. Reliance is a huge flaw unless you’re in a really tough situation. This doesn’t mean you have to act like you’re invincible; Just don’t beg for help, act like you can’t live alone, or expect others to fix your problems.

• Friendship is a wonderful thing, but don’t act like you’re going to die without your friends by your side on a Friday night. Spending some time alone is also great.
• If someone doesn’t call you back, don’t do anything. You don’t have to send more nasty messages to ask why. Give them space and they’ll respect you more.

Be yourself. This is what makes others respect you. You are a separate individual and you do not necessarily dissolve into another collective. Build your own friendships. Being personable is being true to who you are openly, even if you are quiet but not moody and passive-aggressive. Don’t try to be someone else by imitating their gestures or actions even though it’s not bad to act like that, but if you do it regularly you become fake, because that’s not part of your personality. your way and you’re trying to be a completely different person. Live your own life. Don’t lose yourself or your dignity. Being personable doesn’t mean changing yourself, it’s about becoming confident enough for others to see the great you are.

• If you don’t let others see the real you, what’s the point? Being able to be true to yourself and be appreciated by others is the best.
• Master who you are. Take ownership of whatever is yours: bad habits, good deeds, looks, voice. Take ownership of everything and don’t apologize to others for what’s yours, even if it’s not good or you don’t like it. Remember that we are all human and we try to accept each other’s flaws and strengths, so why can’t you accept yourself as the most important person in the world.
• Write a list of goals that you want to achieve. What truly makes you unique is your own identity. Explore your talents in sports, music, art or whatever. Others will notice your passion and respect it. You can also learn new skills and meet new people by trying new things.

Learn to express yourself. The more you reveal yourself, the more you will understand yourself. Self-disclosure is the act of consciously and unconsciously expressing oneself in the eyes of others. This includes but is not limited to thoughts, feelings, aspirations, goals, failures, successes, dreams, likes, dislikes and favorites.

• Self-disclosure happens slowly. Don’t tell your entire personal life to the person you first met at the party or you don’t want to be quickly defeated.

Be friendly but don’t be too pushy. We all like open-minded people, but no one likes someone who is overly eager. Many people feel uncomfortable with people who are too lively. Don’t try to make others accept you. Smile and strike up a conversation with someone, but keep the line between being friendly and snappy. When you meet someone new, take it easy, even if you think it’s your soul mate.

• If you’re too eager to hang out with someone you’ve just met, it’s likely you don’t have any friends at all.
• You can compliment someone in a friendly way, but don’t make a fuss about how great the person looks for half an hour.

Become a good communicator. Everyone has a crush on someone who knows how to speak at the right time. Don’t try to dominate the conversation. You don’t have to share the same story while communicating. Listen and make short comments on someone’s story. Sometimes it’s better to talk less and analyze the conversation, laugh at your friends’ funny stories and be a good listener.

• Hard to listen. Try to make the other person feel important, but only if you feel the same way. Fake enthusiasm will make you dangerous. When you listen to someone, you not only make them feel good about themselves, but you also make yourself feel better. If you get into trouble, you should remember this golden rule.
• Most people want to talk about themselves. If you keep the conversation focused on the speaker, they’ll probably enjoy talking to you. Make comments at the right time. If you meet a group of quiet people, it is best to approach intelligently like Iron Man – Tony Stark.
• Be funny! Play around with the people around. Teasing someone is not bad as long as there are limits. Everyone has a different tolerance level, so you need to make sure everyone around you knows you’re joking.

She tried not to use too much colloquialism. Using colloquialism will make you look “fake” or others can’t understand your language. Speak casually, clearly, and confidently. If you feel the need to change to formal speech and flowery words, do so, but don’t overdo it so you look like a pushover. Creating a balance in your speech is an important thing to help you appear intelligent and erudite in the eyes of others.

Take advantage of humor. Personality people often know how to use humor to relieve any situation. They are not upset and angry, no matter how many bad things happen to them, they can still joke about it. They pay attention to the feelings of others but do not let bad feelings affect them.

• Learn to laugh at yourself. Being individual doesn’t mean being perfect, but the sense of humor in the awkward and uncomfortable moments is what makes you unique. Others not only respect you for that, but also love you for being true to human nature, similar to them.
• You can be cool or be too cool . People who are too cool are always serious and don’t laugh at silly jokes even if it’s really funny. You shouldn’t be such a person.

Speak your mind. Look at people with “personalities”; they usually speak confidently and clearly, at a moderate pace. They don’t speak quickly, stop and hum or mumble in their mouths. They say what they think and mean nothing but what they say. Believe in what you say and don’t let others change that. If you speak your mind but others disagree, don’t worry.

• You say what you think and others will respect you for it, unless you say things that you know will hurt others. However, bring good things out of your words. Don’t shout your thoughts out loud to be heard. Make sure what you say is appropriate and ready for clarification.

Keep your “personality”. The definition of personality is to be calm, in control, not over-excited, neutral, and good at socializing. Usually people with personalities don’t seem eager about everything, don’t talk too much unless they have something nice to say. Learn how to behave with others. Don’t get angry or upset. Being individual is a natural thing and not difficult at all. Be confident.

• Most people who try their best to be personable often lose themselves by trying too hard . We often like people who express themselves naturally. So how to do? One of the secrets to being personable is that when it comes to trying and not trying, you should let things happen naturally.
• Deep breath. Being personable means that you will always be relaxed and comfortable in any situation. Don’t lose your composure. If you find yourself unable to keep your cool, about to cry, or lose control, take a deep breath and apologize for the action. Keep calm.

Don’t use bad habits to get attention. A lot of people get into the habit of smoking, drinking, bullying others and other bad habits. Often this happens because of negative support. After someone does a bad deed, they are “rewarded” with attention. Others will say, “I can’t believe he did it!”. We often confuse the two concepts of being noticed and famous, even when doing bad things. If you want to be personable, you need to know your limits.

• You shouldn’t equate negative attention with being personable. Most of the people who brag about the city like to circumvent the law and drink beer are not part of the personality group. If a certain group of people doesn’t like you for who you are and the way you live, don’t worry about them.
• Don’t use stimulants. People with real personality know how to be personable without the influence of drugs and alcohol.
• Don’t smoke – this doesn’t make you personable at all, it will make you smell bad. Other smokers don’t recognize the unpleasant smell because they smell it too. When you smoke, you will also make friends with other smokers and this will limit your choice of lovers because non-smokers don’t like the smell of cigarettes and don’t want to be around you. You shouldn’t judge smokers, though – you just need to not get into that bad habit and then have to pay someone to help you quit.
• Avoid arguing. When you become a person of character, you will realize that winning an argument doesn’t make any sense. When you know you’re right, just knowing yourself is enough. You don’t have to waste time, effort, and effort persuading people who don’t agree with you.

Don’t just think about being personable – take action. Reading books and articles about self-improvement is great, but you need to step out and apply the theory you’ve learned. Take action! This makes you feel scared but will motivate you. You never know who you will meet and what you will get from them, right? (such as fun, opportunities to improve knowledge, work, opportunities to experience interesting, …)

• Be someone who always acts instead of just ideas.
• Of course, thinking carefully before acting is welcome. However, if you only think without action, you cannot achieve results.