How to Be Humble

Appreciate the talents and qualities of others. Challenge yourself to look at others and appreciate what they can do, and generally appreciate who they are. Understand that everyone is different and take advantage of opportunities to interact with people who are different. You still have your own personal tastes, likes and dislikes, but train yourself to separate your opinions and fears, and you’ll appreciate others more – and become more humble.

• Being able to appreciate the talents and qualities of others also helps you to realize the qualities you want to improve or achieve.

Stop comparing yourself to others. While competition is healthy and can be stimulating, it can be hard to stay humble when we constantly strive to be “the best” or better than others. Instead, you should take a closer look at yourself. Remember, the ultimate goal is not to be better than anyone, but to be better than you were before. When you focus your energy on improving yourself instead of comparing yourself to others, you’ll find it much easier to improve yourself because you don’t have to worry about whether you’re better or worse than anyone else.

• Each person is individual. Appreciate others for who they are, not for their skills and better looks.

Don’t be afraid to follow the judgment of others. While it is you who ultimately determines whether you are right or wrong, it is quite different to admit that you are wrong and that you are not always right. What’s harder, however, is the ability to admit that in many cases other people – even those who disagree with you – are right. Giving in to your spouse’s wishes, following a law you don’t agree with, or sometimes the opinion of your children will take your ability to acknowledge your limitations to a whole new level.

• Instead of simply saying that you are humble and that you are going to make mistakes, you should also focus on living that way of thinking – humility is a way of life, not just a passing act.

Find instructions in books. This is another way to appreciate others. Ponder articles on ethics and idioms about humility. Based on that, pray, meditate, or do anything to draw attention away from yourself and your sense of worth (especially compared to others). You can read for inspiration from biographies, memoirs, the bible, nonfiction and fiction on how to improve your life, or whatever makes you more humble and appreciate understanding. other people.

• If you do not have a rich spiritual life, a scientific method should be considered. Science requires humility. Science requires you to let go of preconceived notions and judgments and understand that you don’t know as much as you think you do.

Acceptance. No one is perfect or the best, no matter what. There’s always someone better than you in some way, and that’s where you find the opportunity to learn. Find people you want to be like them in some areas, and ask them to lead. Under their leadership, you need trust and clear boundaries. Every time you cross the ‘unteachable’ line bring yourself back to the ground. Being receptive means that you admit you always have something to learn in life.

• You can become more humble by taking courses in which you have absolutely no knowledge, such as learning pottery or screenwriting, and letting someone else guide you. This is how you realize that everyone has their own strengths, and that we all need to help each other to become better.

Helping others. It is important to be humble to respect others, but to respect others is to help them. Treat everyone equally and help them because that’s the right thing to do. It is said that when you help someone who cannot repay, you learn humility. Helping people in need also makes you appreciate what you have.

• Obviously, you shouldn’t brag about the volunteer work you’ve done. It’s great to be proud of what you do, but remember: volunteering is not for you, but for the people you’ve helped.

Be the last. If you’re always in a hurry to get things done first and get to the front of the line, challenge yourself to allow someone else to get ahead of you, such as an elderly person, a disabled person, a child, or someone in need. urgent work.

• Ask yourself “Do you really need to do this first?” The answer is almost always no.

Praise others. Compliment someone you love or someone you barely know about. Tell your partner that they look great today, compliment a coworker’s new haircut, or tell the cashier at the supermarket that you like her earrings. Or you can go so far as to compliment another person’s personality trait. Give at least one compliment a day and you’ll see how much people can contribute to the world.

• Focus on the positive traits of others, instead of always finding their flaws.

Sorry . If you make a mistake, admit it. Even if it hurts to say sorry, you have to overcome your pride to tell them you’re sorry for the harm done. Eventually the pain will subside, replaced by a feeling of relief because you know you’ve corrected your mistake. The person will see that you value them and this also shows that you dare to admit your mistakes.

• Make eye contact when apologizing to show your genuine concern.
• Don’t make mistakes often. Apologizing for something doesn’t mean you’re allowed to do it again. Making mistakes often will cause others to lose faith in you and what you say.

Listen more than talk. This is a great way to show respect to others and be more humble. Next time you join a talk, let the other person talk, don’t interrupt, then ask questions to keep them talking and sharing. While it’s a good idea to contribute to the conversation, make it a habit to let others express their opinions more than you do, so you don’t appear to be just interested in what’s going on in your life.

• Ask questions to show that you understand what the person is talking about. Don’t just wait for them to stop talking so you can start talking. Remember, if you’re busy thinking about what you’re going to say next, it can be difficult to focus on what the other person is saying.

Refresh the instinct to learn. As separate individuals we know very little about the world, you will be surprised with many new things that you thought you knew. This instinct in children stimulates curiosity and makes them enjoy observing the world around them, which is why children have such a great capacity to learn. Do you really know the principle of operation of a microwave oven? Can you make one yourself? Do you understand the structure of a car? Understand how the brain works? Do you know how many types of roses there are?

• Boring attitudes like “I’ve been through it all” make us feel that our worth is greater than our reality. No one knows everything. Be eager to learn like a child and you will become humble.

Maintain a gentle demeanor. Light-heartedness is certainly the path to humility. Use the spirit of ‘Aikido’ where possible when you are facing conflict: take the other person’s bitterness and turn it into something positive by finding out why they are angry and reacting. with gentleness and respect. Maintaining a light-hearted attitude will help you restore your instinct to learn while focusing on the optimistic aspects of your life.

Spend time in harmony with nature. Strolling in the park, standing near the foot of a waterfall, seeing the world from the top of a mountain, hiking, swimming in the ocean. Find your own way to get in touch with nature, and use that time to see the value of all that comes with it. Close your eyes and feel the wind on your face. You will feel completely small in front of nature – a deep and powerful force. As you develop a mind of learning and respect for all things that existed long before you and will continue to exist when you are gone, you will realize how small you are in this world. .

• Spending more time in nature will help you see how big and complex the world is – and you’re not the center of it.

Yoga. Practicing yoga is a practice that builds love and gratitude, it will develop your sense of breath, body, love, and goodness in the world around you. Yoga helps you realize how quickly time in the world goes by, so you will appreciate it more. Make it a habit to practice yoga at least twice a week and reap the mental and physical benefits.

• Practicing yoga is about keeping a humble attitude. Yoga practitioners don’t brag about having done a new pose. All poses are done at your own pace.