How to Be a Pretty Girl and Attract Guys

Guys aren’t just attracted to one type of girl. They like pretty girls in different ways. While your looks may attract a guy’s attention, your shining smile, confidence, and outgoing personality will capture his heart.

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Show your beauty

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Wear clothes that make you feel comfortable and confident. A piece of clothing can make you extremely shy or boost your confidence. ^{[1] X Research Source} Choose items that accentuate your best features, hide your flaws, and fit you well.

For example, if you have a slim waist, wear a shirt, sweater, and low-waist dress. If you want to hide the area between your bust and waist, wear a skirt, shirt, or dress with a flare at the hips.
If you’re uncomfortable with crop tops or low-cut dresses at the back, don’t wear them. ^{[2] X Research Source}

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Highlight your strengths with beauty products. Makeup was invented to subtly accentuate your natural features, not hide them. Try different products to find the makeup that works best for you. Remember, too much makeup will not look good. You should try to highlight the beauty with makeup instead of using too much. Sometimes, girls look cuter without makeup. ^{[3] X Research Sources}

Create a smooth skin by covering any blemishes with foundation and concealer.
Highlight your eyes with natural eye color. For an eye-catching look, line your eyes and brush your lashes with mascara.
Give your cheeks a natural rosy glow with blush, contour, and highlighter.
Complete the look with a lip gloss or lipstick that matches your skin tone.

Discover your inner beauty

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Get to know yourself more. When we become aware of who we are, we begin to accept ourselves and feel more comfortable around others. Journaling or blogging is a great way to boost your sense of self and track personal growth. As you write, you might consider the following topics:

Identify your likes and dislikes.
Define your dreams.
Determine what areas of your life you need to improve.

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Accept your flaws. When the media bombards you with idealized images of beauty, it’s easy to forget that nothing is perfect and there’s no such thing as complete beauty. Your flaws make you different—acknowledge your imperfections and start taking advantage of them. ^{[8] X Research Sources}

Instead of focusing on the negative aspects of your appearance, celebrate the traits you love.
Surround yourself with positive people who make you feel loved and beautiful. ^{[9] X Research Source}

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Try to be a positive , open-minded, and enthusiastic person. Inner beauty—your thoughts, actions, and passions are a reflection of who you are. You can enhance your inner beauty and outer attractiveness by putting the needs and feelings of others before your own.

Instead of judging others, praise them.
Willing to dedicate time and resources to those who need your help.
Be kind and generous to everyone you meet. ^{[10] X Research Source}
Follow your passion—when you do what you love, you’ll feel happy. ^{[11] X Research Source}

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Be around positive people. The people in your life will have a tremendous impact on your confidence. When friends and loved ones are constantly criticizing you or themselves, it can be hard to feel good about yourself. Spend time with people who help you affirm your self-worth, praise you instead of criticizing, and highlight your confidence. ^{[12] X Research Source}

Make a guy like you

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Become an expert on body language. Nonverbal cues are an effective form of communication. When you’re flirting, use your body language to let him know that you’re approachable and have feelings for him.

For a friendly and approachable expression, keep your chest, upper body, and abdomen relaxed. Avoid crossing your arms over your chest.
Besides that, spend some time hanging out with the guys and accepting invitations. Following famous girls or just following their opinions won’t make you attractive at all. Remember, it’s not just because your friend doesn’t like someone that you have to turn them down. Join your friends and hang out with others too.
To show that you are trustworthy, keep your hands out. Avoid putting your hands in your pockets or under the table. Also, popularity doesn’t necessarily mean attractive.
To show your attractiveness, wear an open-neck top. Gently tilt your head back slightly when you smile. ^{[13] X Research Source}
To get or keep his attention, lightly touch his hand. Physical touch releases hormones that make you feel connected to others. ^{[14] X Research Source}

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Encourage him to engage in meaningful conversations. To create a genuine connection with a guy, you should talk about meaningful topics rather than social affairs. During the conversation, you can be weak—share your interests, innocence, and fears.

When people share their passions, they feel more relaxed and happy, and quickly become more attractive to those around them. ^{[15] X Source of Research} In addition, they automatically connect positive energies with those around them. ^{[16] X Research Source}
During the conversation, maintain eye contact. Not only will it let him know that you’re listening, but it will actually make him more attracted to you. ^{[17] X Research Source}
Compliment something that really matters to him, like his determination to succeed in school or a sport. ^{[18] X Research Sources}

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Never act like you’re not easy to conquer. Clinging girls can bore guys or feel pressured. However, appearing unapproachable won’t make you “mysterious”. You don’t have to be confusing and vague from time to time to attract someone. One thing’s for sure, though: if he likes you, he’ll make an effort to get your attention. ^{[19] X Research Source}

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Maintain your independence. Guys love independent girls. Prove to him that you have goals and interests of your own. You can talk about the class—what is your favorite subject and why do you like it? Share your dreams—what adventure are you planning on taking?

When he asks for your opinion, don’t say “I don’t know”. Tell him what you want to do on a date and where you want to go to eat. ^{[20] X Research Source}

Warning

Even if you’re sure you like a guy, if you two have nothing in common, it’s best to just give up and find someone else with similar interests. This not only causes uncomfortable moments of silence because there’s nothing to say, but it also makes you bored afterward.
Make sure you take care of your teeth! A smile that shows yellowed teeth is a sign of lack of hygiene, and that is the lingering impression of you when meeting guys.
Remember that proving you’re not easy will work sometimes, but guys don’t like difficult girls. They like friendly girls.

Steps

Show your beauty

Discover your inner beauty

Make a guy like you

Warning

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