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This article was co-written by Rebecca Kason, PsyD. Rebecca Kason is a licensed clinical psychologist practicing in New York and New Jersey. She specializes in adolescent mental health, dialectical behavior therapy, and cognitive behavioral therapy. Kason treats patients with mood disorders, behavioral disorders, communication difficulties, family conflicts, anxiety, depression, and phobias. She holds a bachelor’s degree in psychology from the University of Delaware, a master’s degree in applied psychology, and a doctorate in clinical psychology from Long Island University. Kason completed an APA-certified internship at the Mount Sinai Services health system. She is a member of the American Psychological Association and the Association for Cognitive and Behavioral Therapy.
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Parents are the most important people in everyone’s life, so being a good daughter should be a goal in your life. Maybe you have a great relationship with your parents, but you want to bond with them even more, or you feel like you’re not good enough and want to show your parents that you’ve changed, whatever the reason. Everyone can be a good daughter by being responsible, kind and open to their parents.
Steps
Live responsibly
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Help parents with housework. Do all the chores on your own without your parents reminding you. Plus, do other chores, for example, in addition to cleaning your room, you can clean common family areas like the living room and kitchen. Parents will be happy when you help them do these extra things. [1] X Research Source
- Don’t do housework in a hurry, but do it well and carefully.
- Notice the little things you can do to help your parents, such as setting the table after dinner.
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Help take care of the baby. If you have children, help your parents take care of them. If you are old enough, you can ask your parents to let you babysit so they have free time to go out.
- Your parents will let you babysit when you can stay home alone.
- You can say to your parents, “Mom and Dad, I’m home alone now, so sometimes if you want to go out for dinner or watch a movie, just let me babysit.”
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Listen to your parents. Pay attention when your parents give you advice or talk to you. Your parents have a lot of experience that you don’t have, so respect their knowledge and consider their advice to avoid the same mistakes they made.
- For example, if your parents told you not to speed, drive carefully. If your parents don’t trust a certain friend of yours, socialize less with that person.
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Respect parents’ decisions. If your parents set a curfew at 11 p.m., you should be home at 10:45. When you live in the same house with your parents, always follow the rules set by your parents, show that you respect them and never ignore them.
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Do homework. If you are still in school, try to finish your homework as soon as possible. Don’t let your parents remind you of this. If you need it, boldly ask your parents for help! Parents always want to feel that their children need them even when they are grown up. [2] X Research Source
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Be honest with your parents. If you are having a hard time or have done something wrong, tell your parents. Don’t hide it, be open to them. If it’s a serious problem, you should sit down and have a serious talk with your parents.
- For example, if you fail a subject in school, sit down and have an honest talk with your parents and promise to work hard to do better. You should also ask your parents for advice and help if needed.
Persevere in pursuing your goals . Persevering in the pursuit of your goals will show your parents your determination. Let your parents know your goals so they can support you in achieving them. By accomplishing goals, you will prove to your parents that you are an independent and responsible person. In addition, this will also help you bond with your parents more.
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Help your parents when you can. Be proactive when you see your parents in need of help. For example, when you see your mother struggling to bring groceries and food into the house, you can tell her to sit down and let me help. If your parents are struggling financially, you can find a part-time job so you don’t have to ask them for pocket money. [3] X Research Sources
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Introduce your parents to your friends and parents. Give your parents a better understanding of your life by letting them meet your friends and introduce them to parents and other parents. It’s important for your parents to know how you spend most of your time with your friends, so don’t forget this. [4] X Research Sources
- If you’re going out with friends, let your parents know who you’re going out with.
- You should also introduce your boyfriend to your parents.
Show your love for your parents
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Remember birthdays and anniversaries. The fact that girls remember important days like birthdays or anniversaries means a lot to parents. Add a note to your phone calendar or planner to remember to call home or do something special for your parents these days. [5] X Research Sources
- You can invite your parents out to dinner or make cards or give them gifts.
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Send sweet messages and cards. From time to time, send your parents messages like “I love you” or “Have a nice day”. It only takes a few seconds for you to send such messages, but it means a lot to them. Whether you live them with your parents or live away from home, you can always send them a message. [6] X Research Sources
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Buy or make small gifts for parents. If possible, buy gifts for your parents. Maybe it’s gifts as big as a new TV or as cute and thoughtful as a book Dad likes. Or you can choose gifts that show your love and care. [7] X Research Sources
- If you can’t buy it, make a gift for your parents! There are many things you can do that are not inferior to store-bought gifts.
- Ask your parents if you can help them.
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Express gratitude. More than gifts and things you do, maybe your parents just want to know that you appreciate them. Let your parents know that you are always grateful for everything they have done and are doing for you. [8] X Research Sources
- Tell your parents, “Thank you for always being the best people for me. Parents are always good examples and I am very proud to be your child.”
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Spend time with your parents. Plan to spend time with your parents each week. The older you get, the more your parents will appreciate the time you spend with them. You can have a picnic with them in the park, go bowling or simply go for a walk after dinner. [9] X Research Source
- You should also spend some alone time with your mom or dad. Sometimes go out to dinner with mom alone or go to the movies with dad alone, for example.
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Relive good memories. Sometimes, you bring out the old album and review the happy moments with your parents. You can sit in the hallway with your parents or review an album while having dinner. Take this time to let them know how important those moments are to you. [10] X Research Source
- For example, you could say, “Oh, I miss this day at the beach! That day, my whole family had fun playing, it was fun. I won’t forget when the whole family burst into laughter because you were bitten by a crab, Dad.”
Be a good daughter when you grow up
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Call your parents weekly. If you are an adult and live far away from home, don’t forget to check in with your parents often. Call to see if they’ve been busy and up to date, and let them know about important things going on in your life. [11] X Research Source
- Sometimes, you may be too busy and don’t have time to call and talk for a long time with your mom. At such times, send your parents a brief message to let them know that you always love and miss them. You can also text to arrange an occasion to call back by phone, via Skype or FaceTime.
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Let your parents know about important decisions. Before making a difficult decision, call your parents. They will appreciate your advice and will probably help you make the best decision. [12] X Research Source
- For example, you can ask your parents for advice when choosing a college or choosing a house to buy.
- In addition to major decisions, tell your parents more about your life, including things like work and school, who you’re dating, and what shows or movies you’ve been enjoying lately.
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Visit parents often. If you no longer live with your parents, visit them as often as you can. Visit your parents at least once a month to have dinner or go to the movies with them. If your parents are older, you can take them shopping for essentials or help them clean the house. [13] X Research Source
- If you’re married and have kids, try to bring your family back to visit them at least a few times a year. You can also plan for the whole family and parents to spend the holidays together so that your parents and husband and grandchildren can bond more together.
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Stay by your side to support your parents. Just like when you were young and needed your parents, understand that sometimes they will need your presence. If your parents are going to have surgery, be there with them. Or when your parents are rewarded at work, go to them to support them. A good daughter is someone who will always be there when her parents need her. [14] X Research Source
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Plan a trip with your parents. Don’t just spend the holiday with friends or partner, spend the holiday with your parents too! You can plan to spend a day at the beach with your parents or enjoy a longer vacation if possible. Spend some quality time with them and be a great daughter! [15] X Research Source
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Spend time doing things your parents enjoy. Your parents may have watched a lot of cartoons for you or went to amusement parks that they didn’t like. So you should do the same for them. You may not like going to art museums, but if it makes her happy, go with her. Or maybe you find bird watching boring, but join him if it’s something he enjoys.
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This article was co-written by Rebecca Kason, PsyD. Rebecca Kason is a licensed clinical psychologist practicing in New York and New Jersey. She specializes in adolescent mental health, dialectical behavior therapy, and cognitive behavioral therapy. Kason treats patients with mood disorders, behavioral disorders, communication difficulties, family conflicts, anxiety, depression, and phobias. She holds a bachelor’s degree in psychology from the University of Delaware, a master’s degree in applied psychology, and a doctorate in clinical psychology from Long Island University. Kason completed an APA-certified internship at the Mount Sinai Services health system. She is a member of the American Psychological Association and the Association for Cognitive and Behavioral Therapy.
This article has been viewed 3,272 times.
Parents are the most important people in everyone’s life, so being a good daughter should be a goal in your life. Maybe your relationship with your parents is already great, but you want to bond with them more, or you feel like you’re not good enough and want to show your parents that you’ve changed, for whatever reason. Everyone can be a good daughter by being responsible, kind and open to their parents.
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