How to Admit to Foot Cramps

There’s nothing to be ashamed of about your particular preference for your lover’s seductive feet. ^{[1] X Research Sources} There’s a way to let your partner know about your foot craziness without turning them off. Follow these steps to admit your infatuation with your lover’s feet.

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Prepare before the reveal

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Don’t confess too soon. If you want your partner to accept your foot addiction, then definitely don’t say it out loud in the first place. If on your first date or even after your first kiss you say, “I have a foot cramp,” chances are high that your date will fail. If you want them to accept your problems, then wait for the right time — when the two of you have come to know each other better. ^{[2] X Research Source}

Ideally, you should wait until the two of you have had a sexual experience together. On the contrary, it will be too early if you confess earlier.
On the other hand, you shouldn’t wait “too long”. If the two of you have walked into church and you still haven’t confessed to your foot addiction, you could be in serious trouble.

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Start touching your lover’s feet when you’re ready. When the two of you are closer, it’s time for you to probe each other. When you’re lying in bed and undressed, try kissing your partner’s stomach, legs, and down to the feet. Do not go straight down to the feet to avoid scaring them. You can also start by touching your partner’s feet while you’re watching TV together, then give them a foot massage.

Don’t lick or suck your partner’s feet now because it’s too early.

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See how they react. How does your other half react when you touch their feet? Do you hear pleasant whispers, or do they sometimes say, “Oh, that’s nice” and laugh with satisfaction? If so, then things are going in the right direction. If they pull back or say they don’t like being touched, then you should stop.

If the person reacts negatively, don’t be disappointed. You can still turn the situation around. However, you should not continue to fiddle with their paws until the conversation is clear.

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If your partner responds positively then you should compliment their feet. You shouldn’t overdo it, just say, “Your feet are so sexy” or “Love your feet.” Don’t talk like a person with weird sexual preferences, you should just say that he/she has beautiful feet. This will make it easier for them to accept the truth than if you say outright that you love every foot before paying special attention to theirs.

Also, if you’re a man and you really want to mention your lover’s feet, you can compliment her feet while hanging out. You might say, “Your feet look great in those shoes.” Don’t talk too much, or she will somehow realize that you have a pedigree and assume that you only like her for her feet.

Admit to having foot addiction

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Choose the right time. When is the right time to confess to having delusional foot? There’s no golden rule, but you should probably “not” confess during sex. Instead, choose a time when you and your partner are hanging out and already have feelings for each other, and find a private place to vent. You can tell when you’re back home that you two are about to have sex again. ^{[3] X Research Sources}

Confessing in the middle of sex or cuddling can cause an unexpected reaction you’re not ready for, and upset the mood (though it won’t affect the latter!).

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Express a little anxiety. Although foot cramp is something you’ve heard for a long time and may seem all too common for you, you need to empathize with your partner. Surely you think that feet are hot, and many people share the same opinion. However, for someone who doesn’t have foot phobia, what you say will come as a bit of a surprise, so don’t say it simply and without emotion.

Say, “I have something to tell you…” and show your partner that you have something important to say to get their attention.
Don’t appear to be “too” worried or they will become nervous too. Show just enough concern for the other person to see that you really care about their feelings.

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Start confessing. Honestly say, “Ah, I have a taste for feet,” or “I want you to know that I have a foot addiction.” That is all. There’s no need to say why or how long you’ve had it, or how much you love your feet. You should simply admit it and feel the relief when the burden is finally lifted. Make eye contact, look them straight in the eye and wait to see their reaction.

If they don’t say anything, you can ask, “What do you think?”. In general, you should give them some time to process the news they just heard.

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Respond appropriately to the other person’s feelings. They may receive this news with different emotions. The best scenario is that they say, “Really? It’s weird, but you don’t mind!”. However, they are more likely to ask for more information or not know how to react. The worst-case scenario is that your partner completely disapproves of your sexual preferences and thinks it’s disgusting. Either way, you’ve said it, and now it’s time to show maturity and deal with the person’s reaction calmly. No matter what happens, you should be proud of yourself for being honest.

If they immediately accept your foot insanity, that’s great. Prepare yourself for a night of quirky games.
If your lover needs time to accept then you should respect them. Don’t try to touch their feet too much the next time you kiss, but wait for them to turn on the green light. ^{[4] X Research Sources}
If your lover directly says he doesn’t like it, you don’t need to force it. After all, life is very short and the truth is that you have a foot addiction. Now is the time for you to decide whether to pursue this relationship or not when you are not allowed to indulge your infatuation. It is likely that after a while they will get used to it and become curious about your interests. ^{[5] X Research Sources}

Advice

Try massaging her feet when she comes home from a long day of work or school.
If she likes to paint her toenails, suggest that she paint her feet in a different color to make her feet look better. Then she’ll notice how often you notice their feet and start to question them. Hope she doesn’t see your hobbies as weird.
When she has just come back to your house, don’t rush to take her shoes off to do what you like. This action will definitely cause problems.

Warning

Your partner may see this as a benefit and ask you to smell/lick/kiss their feet for a long time.

Steps

Prepare before the reveal

Admit to having foot addiction

Advice

Warning

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