How to make your crush love you back

It’s normal to have a crush on someone. Getting to know that person and getting them to like you back takes a lot of effort. You can’t force someone to love you, love is a magical thing. However, there are still ways to increase the chances that the person you like will also love you.

Table of Contents

Communicate with that person

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Let’s talk to the other side. Chat is a great way to get to know the person and see if they have the same interests as you. Starting a conversation or small talk can also tell if they like you. Don’t be too hasty, keep the story interesting.

Talk to them regularly, but occasionally you should discuss more serious topics or have longer conversations. If the story naturally deepens, when two people begin to share dreams or secrets, the two will bond. Listen to them more, respond enthusiastically, don’t just talk about yourself. ^{[1] X Research Source}
The dose is to eat a lot. Consider when the time is right, you can tell your partner how you feel. Throw all the cards you have but make sure it’s just the two of you and make things as natural as possible. ^{[2] X Research Source}
Try to be in the same group if you go to the same school. Smile at them often, but don’t overdo it, just enough for them to smile back and come over to you. Ask for Instagram, Snapchat, or Facebook because it will be less obvious than asking for a phone number, but also know a lot of details about them.

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Send flirty signals to your partner, and see how they react. Turn on verbal cues or body language. These signs will let the person know (unknowingly or unconsciously) that you like them, and will probably make them feel a little bit emotional. ^{[3] X Research Sources}

Give small cues through body language. This can happen on its own. Watch for signs of what the person is doing. Open up more and don’t be afraid to show them your fragile side. You should quietly let that person know how special they are.
Laugh a lot. Show a little sway. Name them because people like to hear their names. Praise that person. Don’t forget to be kind and play nice with them.
Touch the person in a flirtatious way, but not in a perverted way. Touching their arm shows that you like them but doesn’t make them think you want to date. Just gently touch the person’s shoulder, or high five, even hug goodbye. Biting your lips, smiling shyly when your partner pokes you, stroking your hair (always effective), and blinking more than usual. ^{[4] X Research Sources}

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Make eye contact. Do it naturally. Getting someone’s attention isn’t easy, nor is it easy to keep it. If you want someone to remember you, make eye contact, but don’t look too long. This game is like when playing with a pet, you swing, sway the toy back and forth to attract their attention.

This does not mean that you should constantly stare at your partner. That looks scary. To make eye contact with someone you like, you should glance at them, smile, then lower your head or shyly look away. This will help the other person feel that you like them without scaring them. ^{[5] X Research Sources}
Eye contact also shows confidence, which is attractive to most people because it’s a way to build an intimate relationship. Research shows that lovers often look each other in the eye.

Interact with that person

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Build friendships with them and appear with them more. Going from a friend or close friend to a lover after being friends for a while is normal. Knowing your partner’s likes, interests, and dislikes will boost their chances of becoming a lover. ^{[6] X Research Sources}

Talk to them like a friend first. If you approach your partner as someone who is secretly in love with them, they will only see you as someone planting a tree. This can be a problem if they avoid getting to know you and thus don’t see the lovable aspects of you. Be friends first, then pursue them later.
Try to make them comfortable around you, by communicating. Get to know them and let them get to know you (your likes and dislikes, for example). This will help both of you understand each other’s compatibility.

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Spend more time with them. Go out with someone you like. No need to go out separately, but invite a friend or two to go to the park or play video games or do something. This way, you can meet and interact with that person in the most natural way.

Participate in activities together. The more they interact with each other, the more they think about you, which is extremely understandable.
But you can also invite your crush to join you in doing something just the two of you, like playing sports or watching a movie. Find out what the person likes and suggest it to them.

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Don’t go too fast and too far. In addition to making the relationship forced and unhappy, pushing things too fast and too far can destroy an incipient bond and possibly even a friendship. Please be patient!

Clinging is the thing people hate most in a relationship. Give your partner space and let the relationship blossom naturally.
Don’t follow people. Not only is it indecent, but it’s also illegal, and it doesn’t work to make them like you. Do not flirt with them uncontrollably, listen to everything about the other person. Don’t try to appear constantly next to them. If they already don’t like you, these actions will only make them more uninterested.
Go out together, have fun talking. If the two of you are meant for each other, what is needed will come. Otherwise, the ocean is still full of fish. Don’t try to make them love you, love is not a game.

Focus on yourself

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Dress better for that person, but also keep your inherent identity. Be honest with yourself and think: how do you look neat and take care of yourself? Do you take good care of your body? Don’t be too proud and selfish, but also look a little better.

Has fashion sense. You don’t have to be a fashion star, but you should be up-to-date and modern, which will catch your crush’s eye. Wearing a fresh look doesn’t hurt anyone. You can choose a fixed date to dress up a bit, but feel free not to overdo it.
Be nice and friendly. If you dress dirty and loose, your partner won’t want to talk to you. If you’re shopping for something to add to your wardrobe, make sure it’s your style. Find clothes that match your personality but also bring out the best in you.
Make sure you smell good and clean. You may want to spray a little fragrance oil. Look for a distinct smell. Anointing with perfume/cologne, deodorant, brushing teeth and chewing gum.

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Smile a lot and keep a positive attitude. People always want to be with people who are happy, not those who nag negatively. Attitude determines everything.

The person you like is likely to be kind to you if you open up, smile, and greet them warmly, whether waving or smiling mischievously. Be happy when you see them, but don’t be too happy that they’ll think you’re stalking them. Animals treat people like that. They are happy to see you and humans are also happier to see them. People even look forward to meeting their pets. This really works.
Be kind and don’t speak ill of others. Grandpa hits him on the back because the person you like can see how you treat people. Ego and arrogance are not attractive at all. Connect yourself to more positive things. ^{[8] X Research Sources}

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Be confident in yourself. Don’t change into someone else or make excuses. Most people don’t like people who turn themselves into a different person and that bores them. People like a little mystery and confidence.

Having your own life doesn’t just revolve around that person. That will make you more interesting. Don’t forget to look cool but also interesting. The more interesting you are, the more interesting it will be for that person.
Whether it’s a pose or a sharp response, look strong. Get to know yourself, reveal your personality.
It’s not worth changing yourself for someone you like. Usually those crushes only last about a month, then someone better will appear before your eyes. If someone gets that person, you don’t have to be angry.

Advice

Tease them but don’t go overboard.
Step out of your shell. Slowly become more comfortable with the person you like, and just be yourself!
Absolutely DO NOT follow them around the school, especially when they are with friends and don’t seem to want to talk to you. That makes you look annoying and sometimes weird.
Clean and fragrant
Make sure you really like the person. How well do you know them? Take the time to find out what kind of person they are.
Don’t be curious about them all the time. People like the feeling of a little chase.
Be confident and beautiful
Know when to give up. Repeat to yourself: you can’t force someone to love you. In fact, the more stubborn you are, the less likely the person will respond to you.
Don’t fold your arms. That gesture will make you look unfriendly.
Always smiling and happy, he will feel the energy you radiate.

Steps

Communicate with that person

Interact with that person

Focus on yourself

Advice

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