How to Treat Women

Behave politely. Women love hearing things like “please” and “thank you”. Whether you are dating or have been married for many years, you should not forget about politeness. Treat her with the same courtesy as you would when you first met anyone.

• Avoid using vulgar language. Never use harsh or rude words about your partner, even if you’re just joking. If you respect her, show it in your words.

Do not change or cancel plans. If there is an emergency or unexpected change, you can of course cancel the appointment, but let her know as soon as possible with a reasonable explanation and sincere apology.

Always in time. If you can’t be there on time, call her as soon as possible. Everyone’s time is precious and being on time is a basic courtesy. Don’t delay calling her for fear she’ll get angry. She may get angry, but she’ll get even angrier if you don’t contact her.

Treat her family well. Even if she says she’s not too close to her family, you should still respect them and avoid criticizing them. Intimacy is important, so parents and siblings can influence a woman’s decision to date and break up.

• If she has children of her own, be friendly and try to get to know her children. Women are often quick to part with those who do not treat their children kindly. However, don’t go overboard and try to get in the way of her parenting or disciplining, let her take on her role.

Avoid jealousy. The fact that you’re jealous of her opposite sex friends, co-workers, and exes without good reason means you think she’s unfaithful and lacking in standards. Surely this is not the message you want to send to your loved one.

Help with housework. If you two live in the same house, don’t forget to share the housework with her. Both are responsible for the housework. Don’t expect her to constantly clean for you. A great way to help you win her heart is to not be afraid to roll up your sleeves to do housework.

Celebrate special occasions with her. Have cards and gifts ready for her birthday, or when it’s Christmas or Valentine’s Day. Greet these days or other occasions with love and appreciation will make your partner feel special. Remember that after the holidays, her family and friends will be curious to know what gift she received or how you both celebrated it. Don’t put your partner in a situation that forces you to lie or admit that you didn’t do anything on the special occasion.

Celebrate anniversaries. Anniversaries are like miniature time machines that help two people re-enact an important event (wedding day, first date, etc.). This is an opportunity to re-experience the special emotion associated with that moment. Show her that you appreciate the past and past events with something special on your anniversary. If you can afford the “luxury” experience and you know your wife or girlfriend will like it, act now and then. Even so, the most meaningful thing is still the card or the conversation that recalls the beautiful moments and the progress of the relationship and the happiness of both.

Give meaningful gifts. Gifts that come from the heart are most often appreciated. Take the time and effort to choose a gift that your partner loves or make something for her yourself. When you invest time and affection into the gift, she will surely be touched.

Give flowers. Not all women love flowers, but most will appreciate being given a bouquet, especially for no reason at all. Prepare a bouquet for her next date or order flowers to be delivered to her home or office (if appropriate). A bouquet of flowers with a card with the words “Missing you” is enough to make her feel happy.

Tell her about her friends. Your friends should know how important she is to you. That doesn’t mean you have to tell her a lot of stories about her (never mention anything very personal, of course). Affirming her as an important part of your life will make her feel more special than if you kept it a secret and didn’t want to introduce her to your friends.

Understand the big meaning of the little things. While romantic gestures are important, it’s the little things that make her realize how much you love her. Kind gestures like preparing your morning coffee or inflating a tire all carry a loving connotation even if you don’t say a word. Show it on a regular basis. Every day, you should do something to let her know that you care and want her to have an easier, happier life.

Sending love message. Write a few lines, text or email her to let her know you’re thinking about her. If she has an important event coming up, such as a job interview or a presentation at work – send messages of encouragement and support.

Praise. You probably won’t need to answer the question “Do I look fat in these pants?” if you still compliment her looks. Dispel her insecurities by complimenting her on what makes her feel bad about herself, and don’t forget to compliment the traits you find most attractive in her. Don’t take a simple statement like “You look beautiful” – just saying it is enough.

• If you get the question “Do I look fat in these pants?”, the correct answer is always “Not at all”.
• We all want to be recognized for the things that make us special; so compliment her for always being herself. Is she creative, interesting, funny? Do you admire her achievements and outlook on life? Let her know that. And remember to look her in the eye while you talk.

Let her lead the way. Initially, you should let her decide how intimate you two are. No woman wants to be pressured into having sex before she’s ready, and everyone’s time is different. Express your feelings, then keep some distance (but don’t sulk) if she needs more time to become more intimate.

Pay attention to the “prelude”. Physiologically, experts agree that foreplay plays an important role in maintaining a healthy sex life. In fact, an Australian study found that most women are more aroused by the thought of “foreplay”. ^[5] Embrace and pet her, make playful gestures, or say erotic words. Don’t be afraid to ask if you don’t know what she likes. However, you should only talk about this outside of the bedroom because it is easier to communicate when the two of you do not intend to have sex right away.