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The best way to confess to the girl you like is to choose a time that is completely private and comfortable for both of you. When you’re ready, you’ll look her in the eye, smile, and say, “I like you.” You can also reveal why you like her or what moment tells you she is your love. Give her time and space to reflect on what you have to say if needed, don’t pressure her to respond right away. If you’re afraid of expressing your feelings in person, you can try writing her a note or sending her a letter! Continue reading below to understand your feelings before expressing them to her.
Steps
Prepare to say “I like you”
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Practice saying what you will say. Saying “I like you” for the first time is really scary. If you’re nervous, you should plan what you’re going to say to build confidence. Think about what you want her to know, then practice confessing to her. Instead of just saying “I like you”, you can say something more profound. Example: [1] X Research Source
- Tell her why you like her.
- Tell her when you fell in love with her.
- Let her know how special she is to you.
- Determine if you’re going to make a simple confession or turn it into a super romantic confession.
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Choose the right time and place. Expressing love to someone is a special and personal thing. Surely you want that moment to be perfect. Choose a place that is private, even meaningful to your relationship and an appropriate time.
- Don’t confess to her in the middle of class.
- If you’re in a crowd, take her somewhere private.
- You can plan a special date to confess your love. Take her for a walk or a picnic. Express your affection at a dinner you prepared specifically for her. [2] X Research Source
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Don’t assume that she likes you too. Besides planning what you’re going to say, you should also be prepared for her response after you confess. If she says “I like you too!” it’s too perfect. However, she may not accept your feelings.
- She will ignore your words or change the subject. If that happens, don’t try to ask “Do you like me too?”
- Be ready to give her time and space to think about what you just said. Try to continue the date as usual.
- Be prepared in case she says no. While this may not be the answer you want, it’s important to remain calm and mature. Have a positive and kind response ready – your maturity will impress her. [3] X Research Sources
Confess to her
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Say “I like you”. When the two of you are alone at the opportune moment, muster up the courage to confess your feelings to her. Look her in the eye, smile and say “I like you”. There’s no need to wait for the perfect moment and there’s no need to be formal in the moment, just be honest.
- Let her know when you started liking her or why you like her. [4] X Research Sources
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Show her how much you love her. Besides saying “I like you,” you should also show her that you care. Always treat her with respect and kindness – don’t treat her badly or take advantage of her trust. Try to cheer her up – if she’s having a rough day, give her flowers to cheer her up. Take her side – when someone bullies her, speak up so they can stop being negative. Support her – you are always present at the events she attends, sending messages of encouragement and helping her achieve her goals.
- Always treat her with respect and kindness. Don’t mistreat her or hurt her trust.
- Always try to make her happy. If she’s having a bad day, give her flowers to cheer her up.
- Protect her. When someone bullies her, stand up and quell the bad behavior.
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Write a love message. While some people prefer to confess their love verbally, others find it easy to express their feelings in writing – almost everyone loves receiving love messages! Write a letter expressing your sincere feelings or a love poem. When the time comes, give her the message tactfully, such as attaching it to a small gift or placing it in her hand at the end of the date. [5] X Research Sources
- You can write a brief message, a heartfelt letter or even a heartwarming poem.
- Don’t text her to say “I like you” or “I <3 you”.
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Patiently waiting for her answer. After she’s heard or read your confession, give her time to take it in and respond. Don’t force her to answer right away. Don’t reveal how you think she will feel or respond. When she’s ready to respond, you need to focus on listening. Listen to what she has to say and see how she reacts right after. Hope she reciprocates your feelings and says “I like you too!”. [6] X Research Sources
- Don’t force her to answer right away.
- Don’t mention how you expected her to respond or react.
Define your feelings
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Look back to see if you tried to impress her. When you like a girl, you will do anything to make her like and interested in you. Perhaps you try to impress her by being reckless or trying your best to help others. You should also try to make an impression with your ability to play an instrument or play a sport. If your actions are motivated by an inexplicable motive to get her attention, you’re probably really in love with her. [7] X Research Sources
- If your behavior is rooted in a secret desire to get her attention, you may be truly in love with her.
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Do you always think of her? When you like a girl, you often won’t stop thinking about her. Do you feel your mind suddenly wandering about her all day long? Have you ever wondered if she thinks of you too? If she’s always on your mind, you’re probably in love with her. [8] X Research Sources
- If she’s on your mind all the time, you’re probably already in love with her.
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Evaluate if she makes you a better person. When you love someone, you have a desire to be the man you think is worthy of her. You will want to improve your performance or behavior in school. You start exercising or participating in a religious activity. If you’re willing to put in the effort to improve yourself for her, it’s possible that you’ve fallen in love with a great girl. [9] X Research Source
- If you want to improve yourself for her, you probably already have a crush on a great girl.
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See if you want her to be happy. When you love a girl, you will prioritize making her happy. To help her de-stress during the exam, perhaps you would volunteer to help her revise, review essays, or run errands. When she’s sick, you enthusiastically take care of her and do whatever she needs. When she’s going through a tough day, you’ll try to make her laugh by all means to forget the troubles. If you put in the time and effort to make her happy, you’re probably already in love with her. [10] X Research Source
- If you put in the time and effort to make her happy, you’re probably in love.
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Be sure of your decision. The three words “I like you” mean a lot. When it comes to showing your affection, the spontaneity of your relationship with her will change for the better or for the worse. Before confessing, you need to ask yourself the following questions:
- Do you really love her?
- Are her thoughts on romance similar to yours?
- Did you confess to her expecting something in return? [11] X Research Source
Advice
- Try not to get too nervous and just be yourself during the preparation time.
- When you say you love her, you need to make sure it’s genuine.
- Practice speaking in front of the mirror several times.
- Always be yourself.
- Pay attention to her and don’t get distracted.
- If she doesn’t reciprocate your feelings, don’t worry. Maybe she’s not ready to show her affection yet.
- Share your feelings and wait for her response.
- Don’t rush to force her to reciprocate your love. Girls need time, so patience is very important right now.
- Be in control of your actions and approach her with confidence.
- Take care of your appearance when you meet her and always take care of yourself!
- When you meet her, take a deep breath and smile. This shows that you like her and will also help relieve your stress.
Warning
- Prepare yourself for what will happen after you confess.
- Don’t overuse the phrase “I like you”. That loses the meaning of the sentence.
- Do not lie.
- Distinguish between LOVE and DRINK .
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The best way to confess to the girl you like is to choose a time that is completely private and comfortable for both of you. When you’re ready, you’ll look her in the eye, smile, and say, “I like you.” You can also reveal why you like her or what moment tells you she is your love. Give her time and space to reflect on what you have to say if needed, don’t pressure her to respond right away. If you’re afraid of expressing your feelings in person, you can try writing her a note or sending her a letter! Continue reading below to understand your feelings before expressing them to her.
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