How to Apologize to Cats

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Oh, it’s not okay! You just did something that hurt your pet cat a lot, and now she won’t even let you come near. Fortunately, you will have a way to get your cat to forgive you. This article will not only teach you to apologize to your cat, but also show you how to do it safely so you don’t get scratched by your cat.

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Sorry cat

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Choose the right time to apologize. If your cat looks angry, you need to wait a while before approaching and apologizing; Reaching out too early can get you scratched by a cat. However, you should try not to take too long to apologize; Approach the cat as soon as it seems to calm down. You can also approach a scared cat, but be careful. See the cat body language reading section in this article to guess the cat’s mood.

If your cat is constantly running away from you, consider leaving a small piece of your cat’s favorite food where it can find it. This will let your cat know that you know the bug and still love it.
You need to be cautious when approaching a scared cat. Always leave room for your cat to run when it’s scared. At this time, the cat is in need of comfort and peace of mind, especially when there is a sudden loud noise. However, it is also possible that it wants to be left alone, so leaving a running path for the cat is essential. A cat that is panicking and cornered can suddenly become aggressive.

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Identify the incident that hurt the cat. What did you do to make your cat so angry? Are you teasing it? Step on its tail? Or do you take its place on the sofa? Knowing what you did wrong can help you decide how to approach your cat and how to apologize. Here are some examples of situations where you’ve hurt your cat and actions you can take to show you’re at fault:

If you’ve teased your cat, perhaps you should reward it with a treat and praise it.
If you accidentally step on your cat’s tail or startle it by dropping a pot, perhaps a simple stroking gesture will suffice.
If you take your cat’s favorite spot on the sofa, get out of there and give your cat something she likes.

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Slowly approach the cat. If the cat runs away from you, it’s probably still angry, confused, or scared. Do not chase the cat, but wait a few minutes and try again. This will reassure your cat that you won’t harm her or disturb her any further. You can also put your cat at ease by being ready to treat her to a delicious treat.

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Talk to the cat. Tell the cat “I’m sorry”. You can even name it. Remember to speak in a soft, calm voice, with a slightly higher pitch than usual. ^{[1] X Research Source} Your cat may not understand what you say, but it will understand your voice. Do not speak loudly with a shrill voice; Your cat’s hearing is very sensitive, and you’ll probably upset her.

Try blinking slowly. A trusting cat often blinks slowly. You can show your cat that you trust him by blinking slowly. ^{[2] X Research Source}

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Gently stroke the cat in spots that interest it. Remember to be mindful of the cat’s mood; Do not cuddle the cat if it seems angry or irritable. See the cat body language reading section of this article for how to determine your cat’s mood. If you don’t know where cats like to be petted, here are a few suggestions: ^{[3] X Research Source}

Scratch behind the cat’s ears. An even better spot is between the cat’s eyes and ears. Gently stroke the cat’s silky hair in that place with your fingertips.
Scratch the lower part of the cat’s cheek and close to the cat’s cheek. The cat may forgive you and even start rubbing your hand.
Scratch the base of the cat’s tail. Place your fingers on the base of the cat’s tail, where the tail meets the back, and wiggle your fingers, scratching gently with your fingertips.
Stroking the cat’s head, back, and chest. However, you need to remember that not all cats like to be cuddled in these areas. Watch your cat’s body language closely for signs of discomfort.

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Play with cats. Your cat may be sulking because you don’t spend enough time with him. If your cat has an active personality, you should play with it – but most cats love to play catch. Here are some games with cats:

Throw a piece of cellophane or crumpled paper at the cat. You can also substitute a toy mouse, but don’t throw the toy at the cat; You should aim for the spot that is directly in front of its claws.
Wave a piece of string in front of the cat. While shaking, slowly move the rope back and forth, coming closer and further away in front of the cat. You can even sweep the wire across a cat’s claw.
Use the laser pen to shine on a spot on the wall or on the floor. When the cat notices this red spot, move the tip of the pen. Your cat will probably chase the red dot from the tip of the pen.
Use a “cat lure”. This toy is a long, flexible stick with feathers or a string attached to the end of the stick. Some toys even have bells attached. Hold one end of the stick and wave the decorative end near the cat’s claws. Lightly flick the tip of the stick – your cat will probably try to jump up to catch the toy.

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Pay more attention to cats. If you’ve been neglecting your cat lately, you’ll probably notice that it’s less cuddly than before. So it’s likely that your cat is upset and lonely. You can apologize to the cat by spending time with it. This could be as simple as reading a book or listening to music next to the cat or petting the cat long and gently. This could also mean that you schedule some time to play with your cat.

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Praise and reward the cat. If you tease your cat or laugh at it, your cat may feel hurt. Treat the cat with delicious treats and compliment how beautiful and wonderful she is. Speak in a soft, gentle voice. Your cat doesn’t have to understand what you say, but it knows you’re talking to it in soft words.

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Give the cat what it reasonably wants. Cats can get cranky if they don’t get what they want. Such things are sometimes quite simple and innocuous – like sitting on a soft pillow. There are other times when the things they want are not good, like a portion of your food. Certain human foods can be very harmful to your cat’s health. If your cat asks for something harmless, you can give it to him. If what your cat wants can be dangerous, give it something else instead.

If your cat wants to sit on the soft pillow on the sofa, let him sit. You can even pick up the cat and place it in that spot. Pet the cat a little to reassure it.
If your cat asks for milk or tuna, you should give him something else. Milk or ice cream can upset your cat’s stomach, and tuna can be harmful when eaten in large quantities because of its high mercury content. ^{[4] X Research Source} You should find a treat specifically made for cats.

Coax the cat

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Reward your cat with its favorite treat. ^{[5] X Research Source} If your cat’s mood has improved, you can reward her directly. Place a couple of cat food pellets in the palm of your hand and sit down near the cat. If the cat is willing to forgive you, it will come and eat the food in your hand. At this point you can stroke the cat behind the ears (or other places the cat likes). If the cat doesn’t come towards you, place the treat on the floor and back away. Don’t take the reward away – this will only frustrate the cat.

Cat treats come in many varieties with different textures: soft and chewy, hard and crunchy, crispy on the outside, soft on the inside, dried meat (like beef jerky) and dried treats. You can find dried tuna pellets on the cat food counter at pet stores.
Cat favorites also come in a variety of flavors, including chicken, turkey, tuna, and salmon. You can also find cat grass flavored treats.
Consider buying cat treats. You can find treats that will help prevent hairballs from blocking your cat’s digestive tract. That way, you’ll not only keep your cat happy, but keep it healthy as well. ^{[6] X Research Sources}

Reading Cat Body Language ^{[7] X Research Source}

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Pay attention to your cat’s body language. This will give you an idea of its mood. If your cat is very angry or irritable, your apology probably won’t mean anything to him, you may even get slapped in the face by him. This section will teach you how to read your cat’s body language so you know when it’s safe to approach them.

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Observe the cat’s tail. The tail is the most expressive part of a cat’s body and an indicator of their mood. Unlike dogs, cats do not wag their tails when excited. Here are a few guidelines: ^{[8] X Research Sources}

If the cat’s tail is raised, the tip of the tail is slightly bent to the side, it means that your cat is happy and you can safely approach it.
If the cat’s tail is ruffled, it means the cat is scared. You can approach the cat to calm it down, but take it slow, and leave room for the cat to run and hide. When cornered, cats can become aggressive.
If the cat crouched or smacked its tail, don’t go near it. The cat is angry, and is probably aiming at you. Let the cat rest for a while before apologizing.

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Observe the cat’s ears. A cat’s ears are also very expressive, and help you know how a cat feels. In general, if the cat’s ears are up, it means that the cat is happy, and if it is down, it is not happy. Here are some detailed guidelines: ^{[9] X Research Sources}

Are cat ears erect in a normal and comfortable position? If that’s the case, you can go ahead and try to make up for it.
If the cat’s ears are tucked back, do not approach the cat. It is very angry and angry. Give your cat some time.
If the cat’s ears are pressed close to the head and back, it is probably scared. You can still get close to the cat, but it should be done slowly and carefully.

Advice

You can try different ways. Some cats may not like to play but love attention and cuddles. Another cat only forgives you when you feed it.
Remember something you have hurt your cat so you don’t do it again.
Give your cat time to relax and try not to rush it. If your cat is angry or scared and you can’t get close to him, wait until he calms down.

Warning

Never hit, scold, or punish your cat for ignoring you. That won’t help but only make her mood worse.
Do not take food from the pantry or refrigerator as a reward for your cat. Human food is usually not good for cats.
Observe your cat’s body language. If the cat seems angry, you should avoid touching it, or you may be scratched by the cat.

Steps

Sorry cat

Coax the cat

Reading Cat Body Language [7] X Research Source

Advice

Warning

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